me and my bf have a really good relationship and we are together every day. ever since we started dating 10 months ago the same girls have been spreading rumors and trying to hook up with him and even admitted that the three of us had a "war" over him ever since the beginning. when they know i go away on vacation i come back and i hear them saying hes cheated on me countless times. he always denies it we've had plently talks and he always says hes not cheating and wont cheat on me. he still says everything they tell me is a lie, but he has admitted to me when hes kissed other girls. the last time he did it he promsied he would never do it again when i tell him i know hes cheating and to just tell me what he did he tells me he didnt do anything and he just laughs when i tell him some things ive heard (some are a bit far fetched) & after a while he gets mad that i believe in all the high school drama WHO DO I BELIEVE i know he sincerely cares about me ALOT i just dont kno if he cheats 2
2007-03-07 13:09:55 · 6 answers · asked by snuffy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well cheating is always a difficult thing to contemplate. Why do some do it and others avoid at the risk of death. Statistics tell us that about 50% of all men have cheated and about 63% of all women, at some point during their life. I think that indicates human nature, not sin or weakness, so do what you want, but i don't ultimately think its the end of the world should either party have a little sex on the side.
Yes he is cheating, now ask yourself is it worth the end of your relationship?
2007-03-10 10:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
zzzzzzzzzzzz!
This IS high school
The only reason these girls are telling you that is because they want him....
He might very well be cheating on YOU
but I won't break up with him because they said so....
the next time they 'try' to tell you something about him, please tell them that 'he told me what he did and I have forgiven him' and LEAVE!
It will take the wind out of their sails
Even if he did cheat, when you were gone, they have your leftovers til you return...
that makes them stupid if it IS true
If he is cheating it will all come out sooner or later
quit accusing him time will reveal it all and you will get the information from an independent source....
WHAT do you expect that he would say if he was cheating
Dont ask him again
just sit back and keep your ears open
and get those chicks out of YOUR life and ask him if he would mind doing the same with friends like those....
2007-03-07 13:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why live with that much doubt.... but on the other hand if you are old enough to have a relationship and you really love him then set the females straight ring his neck if he is even put in the same sentance as them and trust till there is REAL proof. Good Luck
2007-03-07 13:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone...i'm sure you are young and have plenty of time to find a good guy
2007-03-10 23:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by Marsha Mellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. ugh. i have no other choice, but to WRITE IN CAPS. HE HAS KISSED OTHER GIRLS?? WTF? ALLRIGHT GIRL, I THINK... NO... I -KNOW- THAT YOU NEED TO DUMP HIS AHSS. YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE IF YOU'RE ASKING US STRANGERS IF WE WOULD BELIEVE HIM... IF YOU WERE IN LOVE, YOU WOULD'VE BELIEVED HIM. I'M SORRY, YOU MAY THINK I'M WRONG... BUT ITS THE TRUTH.
sigh... aw hun... i think it's time you leave him... he has wasted 10 months of your sweet life...
2007-03-07 13:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by answer! this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dee duh dee the girls telling you he's cheating WANT HIM i think to do that they need you to dump him!!!!!!!
2007-03-07 13:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by Lone Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋