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im 18 and ive never been in a relationship. sure, guys are attracted to me but its only looks. they dont want to date me past my looks for some reason. i tried forcing them to tell me the reason why but all they can say is "idk why."
ive always longed to be in a relationship. to be one of those people who get to share their feelings with someone and knowing that your feelings are returned. i'm really going crazy now and am a wreck because none of my efforts have worked. i feel that its pretty hopeless to keep being optimistic when i have tried so hard and always end up with a broken heart.
me and friends, my "friends" have backstabbed me and let me down so i have to be a strong independent girl. i only have one person i can really lean on for support but he has no interest in me whatsoever.
he told me not to think like this because i will find someone in the future. but you know, i dont think i can wait much longer for a relationship. i cant stand this. what should i do?

2007-03-07 13:06:06 · 4 answers · asked by cellie_mania 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

in public, nobody can tell i have feelings like this inside. so its not because i seem like i have low self confidence or anything in public. only a few close close friends know the real me.

2007-03-07 13:08:17 · update #1

4 answers

Relax. You are so very young. You have lots of time ahead of you and there will be plenty of guys in your life, and, yes, you will meet that special someone when the time is right. You should focus on your studies now. Trust me, you are still a baby. Your time will come.

2007-03-07 13:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by true blue 6 · 0 0

Seriously the first thing I would do is go to the doctor.
If you have bad breath, NO ONE will tell you but they wont be with you either.
Then consider MOVING
seriously go to college in a new state and start over...doesnt sound like you are loosing to much by moving anyway....
every thought about joining the reserves ? There are plenty of available men in the military that would make great husbands and boyfriends
GOOD LUCK

2007-03-07 13:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0 0

Don't think so you will have a very good love life but wait little more. Never have such feelings otherwise you will ruin your self I think you are a honest person from your heart & wish to have true relationship so wait for good time ahead.

2007-03-07 13:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by P S 4 · 0 0

you're trying too hard. just let it come naturally. your probably hindering yourself being in a relationship now because your trying to make it happen. thats not how it works. just chill and it will happen. have you heard the saying"Good things come to those who wait!" Believe it. when you least expect it its gonna happen!

2007-03-07 13:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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