her son, should I be mad at that? cause I am. and I can't seem to stop having to hear about him...
2007-03-07 12:53:52 · 12 answers · asked by supermarkus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are dating a girl with a child...you are going to have to deal with the fact that the kid has a dad...and that dad is not you.
that said, if the kid gets to see his dad, there no reason to have a whole "box" of pics around, but it is healthy for the kid to see his pops face.
i'm guessing that if this is a problem for you...you aren't telling us the whole deal. is there any reason for you to see the kid's dad as a threat?
2007-03-07 12:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by jennyvee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An entire box may be little much. If her ex is her son's father, it is natural for her to keep stuff of his for when her son gets older and starts asking questions. This is especially important if he father is not in her son's life. Now the fact that she keeps talking about him is another matter. Maybe she doesn't know it bothers you so much. They most likely have some history if they have a child together. I say give it some time. For now, just try to relax and not make it any bigger of a deal than it is.
2007-03-07 21:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by debatenerd521 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like maybe you're overreacting. First, did her ex interact w/her son a lot? Maybe her son got attached to her ex and wants to keep his memory alive.
You need to ask her if she still has romantic feelings toward him. If she says no you should let it go. It may just be some pictures that give her & her son good memories. But you're the real deal.
2007-03-07 20:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by acrobatic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should ask her about them i mean if its her sons father than you might want to cosider keeping them cause when the biy gets older and he finds out that your not his father and he wants to find out who his dad is or what he looks like then it will be all on you but i mean i think that you kinda have a right to be angry but then again you kinda dont so maybe you should keep the photos just somewhere out of sight and wait till the little boy asks for them....ok so hang in there!
2007-03-07 21:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by whitney p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get rid of the box an zip it about the ex or move out. LOL
2007-03-07 20:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her frankly to keep all past away to start a new life. One has to forget the past to start a new otherwise will get confused between the two.
2007-03-07 20:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sunny is right... tell her the box cant come and you are sick of hearing about her ex, and until she gets over her ex she wont be moving in...... i wouldnt deal with that crap at all
2007-03-07 20:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would back off and at least delay the move in. It sounds like she is not finished with him.
2007-03-07 20:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by Laura G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her have one picture for here son but if she has more tell her how u feel bout it not being a good idea
2007-03-07 20:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's her son's dad then have her keep one pic in his room the rest at her moms or something
2007-03-07 20:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋