My boyfriend's father does not like him dating Black girls... What should I do? It is not like I am a mean girl. I am pretty nice and quiet and everything. I am also good looking? Maybe he thinks that I look like one of those "African" girls or something? I don't know. Would it help if he tells his dad that I'm multiracial? Or maybe I should give him time?!
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2007-03-07 12:49:37 · 5 answers · asked by Sugar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also forgot to add that we are both 17. K
2007-03-07 12:57:38 · update #1
i understand you ,you shouldnt care on what his parents think.its not like you are going to leave a guy just because ya are not the same color,i think thats stupid of them,they need to stop being racist.if you do plan to stick by his side its not going to be easy you are going to have to be strong with a lot of confidence .if they ever give you a bad comment or a say mean things just be ready,dont argue with them or start crying ,just tell them i really like your son a lot and tell them how you feel about him and that you are not just any typical girl they will understand by the way you act.give them a good impression about you dont curse or be to serous be happy .say hi to them and bye even if they dont like it.
2007-03-07 13:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That must be hard for you. I am in an inter-racial marriage (white/Asian). Luckily both are parents are fine about it. They understand we love each other and, besides, if they did have a problem with it we would just ignore them anyway :)
Give your bfs dad time. If he sees his son is going to continue seeing you regardless he will come to his senses eventually. Good luck!
2007-03-07 20:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by massadaman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur preety, he souldn`t lose u chick! hihi. Sorry but his father`s not that smart then!!!!!!!!!!!!!. U should tlak to ur bf and give him time to convice his father. Also try to go to dinner with his parents and him so that they get to know u and get that ur a really nice person.
oxox. Hope I helped!.
2007-03-07 20:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn your cute. Oh, back to the question, if your boy friend dont have a problem with it, go for it.
2007-03-07 20:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by ddreaddsjr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really none of his business is what i think. its his sons life and he needs to accept it and if he dont like thats his problem!
2007-03-07 20:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by short stuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋