okayy so i am kidda fwb(friends with benefits) witht his boy but i think that it is evloving into more..but he got into a bad snowmobile accident and hes okay i guess but i was wondering if i could do anything to cheer him up or make him feel better or just something nice for him
2007-03-07 12:43:48 · 17 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take him some food from his favoorite restraunt then flash him it outta brighten his day
2007-03-07 12:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A teddy bear, a get well card, chocolate and a kiss... You can also try just visiting him all the time you can spare, bring a movie, read something to him... if you want things to be "more" you can act now and win him for ever. When we guys are in bed sick or in the hospital after an accident we love it when a girl stays with us, cuddles us and takes care of us, we become putty in their hands.
2007-03-07 20:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by FireDragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi:
This is so NOT the answer you want.
First of all, FWB has to be the last,great, male, sex-con, to be played on the women of this planet, whose self -esteem has been damaged on the cellular level
.Are you kidding?
You are giving sex to some dope, who is not behaving as a friend, and you are hoping it might move him beyond FWB and into a meaningful relationshIp? You have allowed yourself to be reduced to a 'booty call, maybe with phone rights. He gets sex, when he invites you to his place, with absolutely no guilt and with the perfect excuse, "you voluteered for this gig." He'll call you when he needs you.
Why, because he is a creep and you are lacking in real self esteem. And, you know why? Look at your relationship with your father. It begins there
Before your self esteem is any lower than it is; before he gets to strangle the last of your sense that knows you have a right to sex with someone who loves you; before you forget that your body is for pleasure for both people who love one another; before you lose sight of the fact that you should get as much as you give to the relationship; before you think that you can buy him with your body (yes, that's what I said) WALK AWAY.
What has he done for you?
How often do you talk?
Does he have other girlfriends?
Has he ever expressed genuine interest in who you are, beyond your body?
And, speaking of your body, how do you feel about your body?
Is he generally attracted to someone of your body type?
Do you do drugs together?
Were you both sober when he came around for a FWB call?
Seek some counseling. You do not need to use your body as a bargaining chip. If you think you do, then it is time to look at your body and work on it. Forget this creep.
2007-03-07 22:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sheila D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Plant a sunflower seed in his name. Take pictures of it every 2 days and put it in a scrap book. Each day write something about growth relating to his healing. be safe and wear protection. Too many STD are available. Sleeping around isn't a good idea. Find a partner and stay with that individual.
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2007-03-07 20:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by zak w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you guys are friends with benefits and he thinks yall are more than anything that you do to try and cheer him up should make him happy because just bringing him chicken noodle soup will be fine just somthing nice...
2007-03-07 20:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by Alexis A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him a card, chocolates, flowers, balloons, etc
See if he needs anyone to take care of him. Guys like being treated like babys sometimes.
2007-03-07 20:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess the best thing i can think of is 2 just b there for him, show him tht u care and just stay by his side for a while. it would b really nice and im sure hell like it =]
2007-03-07 20:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by socc3rmast3rr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go out with him. Friends with benefits never work out because you can become emotionally etached with him. So you should talk with him about your feelings.
2007-03-07 20:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray God from your heart for his early recovery & keep on giving him your sweet lovely smiles with good wishes.
2007-03-07 20:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for him........that will show him more than anything that you actually care about him and that he was ok good luck and i hope he gets better if he at least got hurt
2007-03-07 20:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by kittykitty9524 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋