Do you think a women proposing to a man is wrong or right.
2007-03-07 12:41:57 · 55 answers · asked by Deborah B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i dont see anything wrong with it. just like i dont see why a woman always take the mans last name. let's change things up a bit. if a man is insecure about a woman proposing to him then he aint the one to be marrying. its not about who is proposing to who. its all about love. if the love is real then it dont matter how it goes!
2007-03-07 12:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is something that is done more and more because so many men have shown they lack some balls to propose or commit i would never force anybody into marriage but if you have been with someone for a long period of time and are just fed up with the whole waiting game then ask away it may show you if he really loves you or if you are a booty call. Most guys will propose but I think that you both should discuss marriage in depth and then allow a little time period to pass. Let your mate know you are ready for marriage and commitment and that he/she is the one you would like to marry and meet at the altar. Some guys may just need a little push but if you have done this and he is still justing sitting on his duff then it may be the time to resort to you asking him.
Atleast if he says no your not wasting more time on a deadend relationship. Good Luck if this your predicament
and congrats if it goes according to plan.
2007-03-07 16:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from a male point of view I don't see a problem with it. I think that a woman proposing shows love and self confidence.
I'm not being sexist but I also think maybe an answer of rejection might have more of a devastating effect on a woman than on a man because emotionally they are different creatures.
2007-03-07 12:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by greenfan109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These days, it doesn't really matter who proposes, as long as both of the people in the relationship is ready. If a woman is just proposing to a man for money or something like that, then it's wrong and vice versa.
2007-03-07 12:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wrong. I'm all about being traditional. I think if a women proposes to a man, then it can indicate some from of desperation.
2007-03-07 14:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither, it depends on what the woman wants/needs in her man. If she doesn't mind wearing pants in the family, she might not mind proposing. I personally prefer to follow, not to lead. I have no problem bringing up marriage when I feel it's time, but I would not formally propose.
2007-03-07 15:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong, but it's not the traditional way to do things. If you are looking for traditional than I would wait until he proposes to you. He might have something planned for you and you don't know about it. It also might put a blow on his ego...men are funny like that!!
Do whatever you feel comfortable with! Good luck
2007-03-07 14:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should it matter who does the proposing? I think there should be equality here.
I proposed to my man six years ago and we have been very happily married for over 5 years now.
I love a happy ending.
2007-03-07 12:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by margaret w 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wrong the man should be the one to propose. But that's just my opinion i'm very old fashioned and traditional.
2007-03-07 12:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't happen often, but it's not wrong to. If the girl wants to get married with the guy, and he hasn't proposed after you have been dating for quite some time.. Then go for it :D
2007-03-07 12:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋