last night i came home and my wife said i don't get to have any food tonight. i tried to get my wallet by she blocked the door to my office where i keep it and wouldn't let me have. so i ran to the door and she almost wouldn't let me put on my shoes but i managed to escape. i shamingly went to McDonalds and bought the 99 cents meal, because it was the only thing i could afford without my wallet. then i went home and she wouldn't let me in my room and made me sleep on the porch. i got really cold and in the morning right when i woke up she made lick the dog four times. i started crying again and she made fun of me. how can i stop getting so depressed?
2007-03-07 12:35:40 · 22 answers · asked by Mr. Foogendoogen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
your self esteem is pretty low or non-existent....no one, including your wife should treat u that way... find a counselor and lawyer and go over the situation with them. additionally, you may need to file a divorce, but if you love her more than yourself, you've got more pain and depression coming to u.... so pull yourself together and stand up and find a support person or group, could be a family member as well, but you've got to talk it out with someone other than your current wife... talking to yourself about your predicament only feeds your depression and low self esteem...
2007-03-07 12:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by ogg08 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself!!!!!! get a separate bank account so you do not have to share money with her and hide an ATM in your car or somewhere she doesn't look. Also keep blankets in your car and if this doesn't work get a divorce. You can find a new lady. Make sure you stop sharing your $$$ with her she doesn't deserve it. This will help your depression because you will feel better about yourself. Good Luck
2007-03-07 21:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a Libra. I am one, too, but I'm smart enough to know that she's abusing you. You shouldn't get over it, what you need is a divorce. Really, she's being really cruel to you. Divorce, lawsuit, or something. Stop letting people boss you around. It's your life, and nobody should interfere. I'm so sorry she's being like that to you. If you don't want a divorce, talk to her about it. She might be having an emotional break-down. Maybe consider conselling. Whatever you do, good luck.
2007-03-07 20:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by King John dragon-slayer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap the living hell out of her. then maybe she will change her tune. you ought to stop being a pussy and stand up for yourself. if you made a stand like a man should you wouldn't get treated like that. she is probably having sex with other guys while you are gone, because that way she can get her fill of real men.
2007-03-07 22:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is wearing more than the pants in the marriage...this is called physical, emotional, and mental abuse. You need to leave your wife or go to therapy!!!!! This is a serious situation...get out of it as soon as you can before she starts making your life more of a living hell.
2007-03-07 20:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've gotta be kidding me! You are the man right? She will respect you 10x's more if you stand up for yourself and act like you are the one who's wearing the pants in the family. --the "Man" . Go get her Tiger! Show her who's boss-
2007-03-07 20:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by honeyhustler88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When depressed it is often said that you should think of a happy place, some place of your youth or a place you may have been or even wanted to go, and when there is a sadness coming this way think of this happy place!!
2007-03-07 21:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my!! I couldn't even dream being mean to my husband. If this is true, how come you don't take authority for your home and yourself? She will continue to do this because you allow it.Stand up as a man should and take control.
2007-03-07 21:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by Coffeebandit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope you're joking. If not, please just leave her. You need to get out of that situation. That is absolutely rediculous!! Just leave. You can go to the police later to have them let you in your house and get your things if she honestly won't let you. I'm so sorry for you.
Good luck!
2007-03-07 20:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by Mommy of 2 Girls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You`re kidding right ? You need to end this relationship . If she does that to you then she does`nt really love you . It`s pretyt obvious that she needs to grow up .
2007-03-07 20:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋