Should I ignor her or bring it up in our next conversation?
2007-03-07 12:22:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
sounds like you aren't mature enough to get married.....better rethink what you are doing.
2007-03-07 12:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should bring it up because obviously you love her enough to ask her to be in one of the most importnant moments in your life and you shouldn't ruin the friendship, let alone the wedding just because of a little dispute between you and your friend. Just let her know that it hurt your feelings and who knows? maybe she doesnt even know she's hurting u. Just be open and honest with her and thats the best policy. You deserve a beautiful wedding day with the one you love surrounding by the people you love and your friend is one of them. Don't blow this special moment. You'll hate to look to the the side at your bridesmaids on your wedding day and not see your friend standing there.
2007-03-08 01:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Snootie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring it up. Honesty is always the best choice. That is the only way to have a great relationship. Open comunication. ANd don't say you hurt me or you did this. Say i felt this way and i want this. Make it about you . Because if you say you alot she will feel like you are coming down on her and if you have asked her to be a bridesmaid then you must really care about her as a friend and you don't want to loose that . Especially in this time of your life.
2007-03-07 20:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by alonnasmeme 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unless she said something that really hit a nerve that you will never be able to forgive her then talk to her and forgive her. If it was so bad that you never want to see her again then let her know, otherwise she may show up just before your wedding asking about dresses and what not. Ignoring her isn't fair to her and won't work anyway, she will think you are mad at her but won't know why and perhaps she will keep trying to get ahold of you to find out why. Talk to her about it, maybe whatever she said just didn't come out like she was thinking. Good luck.
2007-03-07 20:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by MOMMY585 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if a single comment can make you rethink something as important as being a bridesmaid then you obviously arent good enough friends for you to be asking so much of her
2007-03-07 20:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
can you be more specific on what you mean she put you down-did she tell you she doesn't want to be a bridemaid now or did she insult you and the both of you had an argument??? but which ever one you mean don't ignore her for anything-she is your best friend she had a reason for what ever she did- just talk to her about logically!
2007-03-07 20:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by ang925 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How does ignoring her solve the problem? If she said or did something unflattering towards you, then confront her with it. Give her a chance to explain or apologize. Simple as that. if you're not satisfied with her response, at least you have a whole year to find a replacement at your wedding!
2007-03-07 20:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Bring it up. If you want to make another friend to replace her, you'll have to get a head start on it, and you won't have much time.
Talk to her. There's only so much we strangers can do about your relationship issues, you know.
2007-03-07 20:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by SlowClap 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
let her know that she hurt your feelings and ask her why did she put you down. what did you ever do to her for her to treat you that way.
2007-03-07 20:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by TJ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just tell her that you are concerned that she might not be your bridesmaid.
2007-03-07 21:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋