ok its hard for me to get a girl because ive never had 1.i like this girl a lot and i talk to her a lot and stuff but i want to say that i like her but i just get shy.how can i tell her i like her??what if she rejects me?? i think she is because im short.im a 12 year old,in 7th grade and im 4 feet and 7 inches.she is like 6 inches more taller than me.HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-07 12:00:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
congratulations, your not gay! lol okay, well, so you like this girl huh? and she is 6 inches taller than you? tough luck dude. same here, im 14, only im 6' 4", lol im the tallest in my grade! so i kinda know what going through your head right now. And really, dont sweat being short! you will grow throughout HS. now about little miss sunshine. alrighty, well, my first piece of advice... SHOW HER YOUR A MAN, NOT A LITTLE BOY (no pun intended, hehe). dont sweat messing up, like if your voice cracks while talking to her, just laugh at yourself, girls dig a guy with a sense of humor. Dont stalk her, dont obsese over her, but if you really want to date her, then be her friend, cheer her up when shes sad, congradulate her when she gets an A, remind her your alive and your there for her whenever you can. give her a gift on her b day. invite her to go running with you. idk, just show her your not her stalker, but want to be her bf, and if you dont screw up, you should be just fine =)
2007-03-07 12:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.Domino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the 7th grade as well and well im taller than you say you are but at my school im shortish-medium height.
just stay friends with this girl for a while. let her get to know you a little bettter and you know her a little better. then just tell her how you feel. if she says no then you have to be ready just say that you can still be friends and you hope it doesn't make it weird between you.
ps - i want a boyfriend but can't really seem to get one.
pps - one day i wore this really cute white mini skirt and my crush started to talk to me. (that wasn't long ago) Now i dont really like him because he judges girls by their looks and not by their personality.
uuhhhh that made me soo mad
does this make you feel better? It is hard to express your feelings no matter what age.
look up one of my questions i believe it is titled "SHOULD I TELL HIM?" some of those answers may help you too.
you shouldn't feel bad because your shorter than most people like that guy judging me for how i looked if the girl doesn't like you because your shorter by 7 inches then it was just something that wasn't meant to be.
hope i helped
2007-03-07 20:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Jess ♥ I dream, I wish, I love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude.im in middle school 2.all gurls want is for you to be yourself.not think you better than everyone else.o yeah and most of the time those im a guy so im better than you are jokes.NOT FUNNY.(not saying that you say those)and if this gurl really likes you she shouldnt care about you height.i went out with a guy a few inches shorter than me.one guy about a foot taller than me.and one guy the same height..so i think if ur just urself youll be fine.
2007-03-07 20:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by Beka14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre only in middle school you should be focusing on your school work and grades so you can get a good job and a really good woman (trust me a woman is way better than a girl) and besides youre gauranteed to break up with a girl you start dating this early so why set your self up for that type of pain this early in your life
2007-03-07 20:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by doobiemanrfrank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
size and porportion doesn't matter. i'm in middle school too. im a 12 year-old and yes i have a boyfriend. he is very sweet and funny and has a nice personality. he isn't the best looking guy out there but i really don't care! i like him for HIM! and size doesn't matter so go for it. you'll never know what your missing if u don't try.
2007-03-07 20:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out she will admire you for it and most likely, she will go out with you if you're as close to her as you say you are. If she does say no, it's not the end of the world? There are more chances and if that fails; more girls.. If you aren't good enough for her, screw her she isn't good enough for you.
But, point blank.. Grow a pair and be a man.
2007-03-07 20:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by vilent_johnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was in middle school i liked this 1 boy and i told him so and he just said "i like you as a friend." I was sad, but i realized that being rejected wasn't as bad as i'd thought it would be. So don't be afraid to tell her you like her, and if you're too shy then just ask your friends to tell her. Good luck!!!
2007-03-07 20:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by luv2shop173 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend is 5 "9" and her boyfriend is 5 ft tall, so it doesnt really matter if u am tall or not...
i am 12 too and one boy in my class is 4 "5"...
i mean i wouldnt date somebody b/c how tall they are... go and talk to her more, get to know her better, then u will be more confident to ask her out.
2007-03-07 20:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by rebel5689 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too young to be looking for love
Wait til you are in high school or college, or age 18-19
2007-03-07 20:05:52 · answer #9 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
im in the 7th grade too.I think you should just keep talking to her and then tell how you feel.hopefully things will workout
2007-03-07 20:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋