I have been hanging out with this girl for about 2 months and we both crush on each other. The problem is she doesn't want a boyfriend until the end of high school. I'm cool with this, I'm willing to wait around, so we're just friends. My friend started going for her and got in the same situation as I did. She wants us to all hang out together but it just seems like it would be weird considering we both have things for her and it's mutual from her, so I've kind of dumped my friend over this. Now when I get mad when she ditches me to hang out with other guys she acts like I'm trying to be her boyfriend or something. She has this "we're friends but we both like each other" thing going on with like 4 people and she acts like she is going out with the person whenever they hang out, but she doesn't let it go anywhere with anyone. Is this the type of girl I should even waste my time with? What can I do to try to get to the next level? (Trust me I've tried to talk her into it enough)
2007-03-07 11:51:59 · 10 answers · asked by Greg S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls like these are everywhere. Do not chase a girl. Move on and don't look back. Never give up a friend for a chance at a girl.
2007-03-07 11:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by me_laura_gil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really honestly she is young and shopping her options, if she isnt sleeping with all four guys then there really isnt anything wrong with her character besides leading you on. Maybe she really just wants to be friends with all of you and is a natural flirt. It has only been two months right? Give her time, just be cool and hang with her it sounds like she doesnt want more than that. Maybe you really are rushing her your just in high school calm down and enjoy life. But if you are on the pursue of someone now to be serious with well dont give her the time of day because if shes not interested now she may not be tommorrow! If you are certain she is the one you want then respect her wishes and wait. You cant build a city in two months so you cant expect someone to come running every time you call in that short oftime
2007-03-07 12:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by charityislove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Control the situation, talk to your guy friends tell them what she is doing make sure it sounds... BAD, then seclude her into a position where she has no attention from guys then thats when shell want to get close to you then you have a choice be with someone who isnt trustful or drop her right there cut her off and feel good about it and confident! o yes
2007-03-07 11:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by JMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT KNOW. SHE SEEMS LIKE SHE DOESNT HAVE HER PRIORITIES STRAIGHT. SHE IS PROBABLY JUST EXPLORING HER OPTIONS UNTIL SHE IS READY. AND REMEMBER YOU GUYS DONT GO OUT (YET) SO WHEN SHE HANGS OUT WITH OTHER BOYS TRY NOT 2 LET IT GET 2 U. I THINK YOU WILL GET OVER HER UNLESS YOU REALLY LIKE THIS GIRL. DONT WORRY IT WILL WORK OUT. DONT KEEP BRINGING IT UP LET HER COME TO YOU SO U KNOW IT WAS REALLY MEANT 2 BE. GOOD LUCK WITH THIS ONE AND REMEMBER ~WHATEVER IS MEANT BE WILL WORK OUT PERFECTLY~
2007-03-07 11:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Henrietta N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't seem confused about what she wants, you sound incompatable in the romance department. If an exclusive relationship or one that goes farther is what your goal is, you need to look elsewhere.
2007-03-07 12:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by Linda L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend Mackenzie is exactly like that and I mentioned her name cus she might be the girl u talking about. Kenzie's not worth it.
2007-03-07 11:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by lachica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would move on. it seems she just a flirt but noncommental. u should just let it go. just stay as a friend with her u know.
2007-03-07 11:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing will work.Let time let it happen.If you can't hang with this move on.
2007-03-07 11:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it hurts u,,just let go.She would understand.
2007-03-07 11:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. she mite want you after that. good luck.
2007-03-07 12:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by tweed801 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋