i've been seeing this guy for a while and we've been having sooo much drama because of our friends and thier opinion about us and the big problem is our ex's they keep interfering one day it's my ex and then the next day it's his ex and it's making us argue soo much to where he doesn't want to talk to me anymore and it's driving me crazy.....what should i do to make this better? i don't want us to be on bad terms with each other i want everyone to just leave us how we are but they keep saying stuff it's all dumb childish things and he is 7 years older than me so i know he's tired of my friends and what they have to say. i've stopped that drama with my friends but now it's his ex she's stalking me at my job she'll stalk me in different cars thinking i don't see her passing by and then she will crank call me at different times of the day or send text messages. how can i stop all of this so we could be on good terms?
2007-03-07 11:49:12 · 5 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should let him know your down for him no matter what your friends have to say and let your friends know the same. Let them know your relationship with him is none of their business and when you want their opinion you'll ask for it. I have the same problem with my friends. Why is it that people always want to tell you how to love your life even when they have problems werse than you. I think you should also tell ol' boy now that you've got your friends in check, he needs to get his ex in check. My man is 13 yrs older than me and he's not down with that kitty sht either. Don't let people on the outside have such a negative influence on a realtionsip that has so much potential.
2007-03-07 12:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be a little "thick skinned" and ignore comments or remarks from your friends if you want this friendship to continue. Just remember that every one has a mouth and just let them speak whatever they want to. Good luck.
2007-03-07 19:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD TELL YOU BOYFRIEND THAT YOU TOOK CARE OF YOUR BUISNESS WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND THEM ALWAYS INTERFERING AND IF HE DOESNT YOU NEED TO TELL HIS EX TO GET OUT OF YALL LIVES. IF SHE DOESNT LISTEN WELL GIRL DO WHAT YOU GOTTA DO ASK YOURSELF IS HE REALLY WORTH THIS OR CAN I KICK SOME A**. YOU FEEL ME LOL GOOD LUCK AND TRUST I BEEN THROUGH IT MYSELF AND I JUST WAS LUCKY ENOUGH TO TALK IT OUT GOOD LUCK
2007-03-07 20:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by chiqitaaj09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend to break up with him so that his ex stops bothering u
2007-03-07 19:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you got to do is bet his ex ***
2007-03-07 19:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by caramel_chik8060 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋