i really liked him about 2 years ago, but he flirted with my best friend A LOT and so when he started flirting with me i gave him the whole let's just be friends speech, and he said ok fine that's cool, etc. And promptly fell off the face of the earth. Suddenly he's back (and better than ever :-/) he was really excited to see me, was flirting, and told me i looked beautiful. i still like him. But this is weird and i don't know what to do... Please help!
2007-03-07 11:30:38 · 5 answers · asked by sudoku_crazed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do what you feel is best in your heart
2007-03-07 11:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by doobiemanrfrank 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for commitment forget him. But if your looking for a fling...........
Don't be afraid some times the most exciting and intense relationships are the short lived ones. If you are mature enough you could have some dates with this guy and have a short but fiery romance. He doesn't seem to be long term material at all. But if you are young and available and so is he then explore romance but keep your guard up, don't mistake Mr. fling with Mr. commitment.
Take it one date at a time, keep your distance and keep him in his place if he understands that you are gonna take him as serious as he is going to take you, then your romance can heat up even more. Some guys are really into women who can play the non comitment game.
I can see that you are drawn toward him, and subconciously you can't and won't trust him because he flirted with you and your best friend. You are afraid to fall for a player and you are so right. So don't play with a player if you can handle his game.
2007-03-07 19:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by stalin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i'm guessing you all were single at that time? if so, i guess it's fine that he flirted with your friend and then you. but yeah, it probably does make you feel a little uncomfortable but you know what?...take things slowly. go out and do something simple with him. observe him and see where he is coming from. if it still weirds you out after that, then dont think too much about him and resume with your normal day to day life.
2007-03-07 19:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by kisskissbangbang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart - It's all your choice. It all depends on what your heart feels.
That's what i did with the girl i'm right now. I listened to my heart and it told me that she's the one for me and now we have been dating for 2 yr.
2007-03-08 20:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by mostly_forfun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instinct, girl! If you feel good having him around, why not give him another. Who knows, it might be sweeter than before.
2007-03-07 19:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by Del S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋