Sometimes we need to open our minds a bit and meet different kinds of people.
The daughter is 16 and is me.
2007-03-07 11:30:21 · 13 answers · asked by Lori 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
This is a legitimate question as well as a commentary on that person who always posts the BLACK and WHITE questions, if you didn't pick up on that already.
2007-03-07 11:31:27 · update #1
Gussie - he keeps coming back with new logins. Thank you for your insights.
2007-03-07 15:05:31 · update #2
Well, I too was and still am a totally spoiled rotten person myself and all I can say is that it is better for you to learn how to "grow up" out of being extremely spoiled because it is not a good thing. It makes being told no to really hard in the real world. If you are so used to getting your way all the time it can actually hurt you in the long run. I learned the hard way so trust me when I say that it could be a good thing being with someone your own age that is not extremely spoiled.
2007-03-07 16:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by poneysandhorses 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I thought spoiling a child was another form of neglect . . .
Neglect since they will be socially inept parasites when they become adults.
Neglect because spoiled kids are totally out of touch with reality and few adults can tolerate them in the workplace.
Unless the daddy owns a company that can employ them, there will be a survival problem and even then NONE of the employees will want to associate with the brat.
What child wants to be a social pariah ?
What child wants a future where people will only associate with them if they are paid $$$$ because they have no desirable human virtues ? (all virtue lost to bad upbringing)
How many kids spoiled & indulged are smart enough to figure out that their future is being poisened ?
Note regarding dating: The only non-spoiled people who would date a spoiled person , would be looking for free stuff . . . since they could have good fun times with all the regular real non-spoiled kids.
Why else would they put up with lame $$$$ attitude unless there was a cash payday.
2007-03-07 11:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by kate 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
little ones like that are going to have a actual complicated time adjusting to the actual international till they proceed to stay with mommy and daddy and that they guard them on the age of 30! they have not have been given any experience of what duty is. I even have encountered numerous people like that and function got here upon that they are going to pass to extremes to get what they pick, whilst they pick it, and that they pick it NOW. it particularly is going to harm them in many, many respects. Employment, socially, emotionally, and so on. and that i'm no longer able to think of those style of youngsters actual finding an significant different that could have the potential to submit with their habit. particular, they situation me. they have an mindset and think of they're above and extra perfect than all others. (maximum of them, besides) they don't have appreciate for persons or others materials, the two. existence is going to chew them interior the butt finally and that they are going to discover out that money won't have the potential to purchase them out of each little thing. The time will come whilst existence slaps them interior the face and that they at the instant are not likely to have a clue on a thank you to attend to it. it particularly is going to be a protracted and brutal fall lower back to certainty!
2016-11-23 14:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand your question at all. Are you asking if your father should let you date less spoiled guys? Or just date different people than yourself. Of course you should be able to date anyone regardless of money, social status, race and all other nonsense, but you are 16, so whatever dad says...pretty much goes until you move out..no matter what your opinion is.
2007-03-07 11:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by shugarmagnolia420 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think if you have true feelings for someone you don't worry about social status. Attraction is not monitored sometimes by commonsense but by the heart.Have you heard the saying"love is blind". In reference to the poster I think I know who you are talking about.He has been kicked off many times. Do his questions always have the words black and white in bold print? I thought he was gone.... such an ignorant racist.
2007-03-07 13:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by gussie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, because you need to learn that not everyone is as unfortunate as you. Being spoiled is nothing to brag about. Nor does it prepare you for life or any of life's hard knocks but then "daddy" will probably bail you out!
2007-03-07 11:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You sound like a self-absorbed idiot to me! You can't judge people because of what they have, but of what's inside. Jesus, people like you are what makes this generation suck.
Lauren-15
2007-03-07 11:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by Becca 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
DEAR
FIRST NOT TO HURT YOUR FILLING BUT IF YOU WAS MY LITTLE GIRL SPANKING ON YOUR BOTTOM ONE
AND NO YOU DO NOT NEED TO DATE I AM OPENING MY MIND A BIT A REALLY GOOD SPANKING MAKE YOUR PARENTS DO IT ASAP
TAKE CARE
2007-03-07 19:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What makes you think anyone here gives a s*** who your dad lets you date?
2007-03-07 11:52:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
who wants to date someone like that?
2007-03-07 11:37:05 · answer #10 · answered by linda78 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋