I'm best friends with his female cousin and she says most likely he isn't. One of his ex-girlfriends has been bugging him alot lately and he tells me he hates her, he even let me listen to their conversation. So many people have told me that he is cheating on me. He tells me it's not true and I am his one and only and alot of people are either just jealous or mad because he goes to my school's enemy. My school is a huge rivalry with the school he goes to and not many people seem to happy I'm going out with him, so he thinks that may be a reason why. Also, I found a picture comment on myspace under an ex girlfriend that at the end said ilu. I asked him about it and he told me it wasn't him and he needed to change his password. I asked him who had his password and he named a few people so I told him to stop giving out his password. One thing I noticed though is that he brings me around his family, so that means he's not cheating right, or else his family would know. Please help. Confused
2007-03-07 11:19:58 · 13 answers · asked by surfer101_317 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should take your time and stop jumping to conclusions. I've been in your shoes before, and you are def. young so take your time in this relationship. And don't believe everything you hear it could be rumors and people could be hating on your relationship. If he say he's not cheating then take his word until you find out he has lied. Tell him to give you the password to myspace if everyone else has it. If he doesn't give it to you then take desperate measures and I-spy on his ***.
2007-03-07 11:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by diamondz_a_mill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he still even speaking to the ex? Out of respect for you he should break his ties with her. Would he like it if you still spoke to the ex's? Just because he brings you around his family doesnt mean he isnt cheating. There are plenty of husbands and fiances that bring their significant other around the family. Why would he tell his family that he is a heel and that he cheats? How would they know. I dont think the rival school thing is an issue either. He needs to break the ties with all the ex's and why would he be giving his password to people..this all sounds too fishy. Confront him with all this and see his reaction. Women/girls are usually right when it comes to gut instict. Good luck
2007-03-07 19:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to look as though I'm stirring things up here honey but if his family knew they wouldn't tell you anyway....even if they didn't agree with what he does....they would hardly tell you, so you can't take that as security I'm afraid......with everything that goes around about him cheating plus the message of ilu on an ex g/f's myspace page....I'd be sitting bolt upright.........I wouldn't be happy either with the situation....you're hearing alarm bells but refusing to listen to them......no wonder you're so confused.....sorry.
2007-03-07 19:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably cheating behind your back. Get some of your trusted friends to maybe spy on him and find out what is really going on because that "ilu" comment is pretty suspicious, and the fact that many other people are saying he is cheating on you.
2007-03-07 19:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
family will cover up and put their loved ones first. he dont necessarily have to bring his ex or some other girl around there. he cud meet up with them any other place. he aint that stupid. but u are in a tough situation becuz ppl tellin one thing and then u see lil signs. he may be innocent or not. its hard to tell but if u cant deal with the pressure then find some1 else to be with.
2007-03-07 19:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by CaribbeanChica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask ....he is....
Plus, ok, what are the odds someone hacked into his myspace account just to leave a message on his ex girlfriends page??? COME ON!!! Open your eyes....
So he knows of a few people who have access to his account...1.) Why do they have access??? 2.) What does anyone have to gain from doing that???
I think you should cut him loose...
2007-03-07 19:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by Dave B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, wake up and smell the deceit, of course he is cheating, what do all those people have to gain by telling you he is a cheater, real life doesn't work that way, how many people have you ever lied to about someone cheating on someone, I bet you have never lied about that, people just don't do it very often. hate is an emotion, that means he still has emotions for her. he admitted it to you and you chose to ignore it. good luck.......
2007-03-07 19:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your to young for this get threw school then date. I was with my ex for 5 years (high school sweetheart, I wouldn't call it that) I mess up most of my life because of him. In the end he cheated.Put your life first and nobody else.
2007-03-07 19:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by C M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be too sure. Listen unless you have definitive proof don't worry, You are young, take this relationship casually. If you spend your whole time worrying if he's cheating you might inadvertently ruin the relationship. iF he is cheating you will find out soon enough and you can worry about it then.
2007-03-07 19:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one if they aren't in a relationship any more then he shouldn't be accepting her call.Well the reasons you stated do necessarily mean he's cheating. If he changes his pass word and it continue to happen then i would begin to worry.
2007-03-07 19:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋