I'll try and cut to the chase, I really like this girl. we would flirt and call eachother hottie/cutie stuff like that, she asked me to hang out with her after school, I did we had fun and flirted it went really well. We talked alot over a couple more days and flirted around. I finally figured id ask her to go to a basketball game with me and ask her out. Well I ask her she says shes not sure if shes going or not and shed get back to me tommorrow, this kinda suprised me but I went with it. Next day rolls along, she doesnt say a word to me, again very suprised, I thought I had this figured out. We have track together so I dicided id ask her about it afterwords. She left early so I didnt get the chance. I go to the game and as I figured she didnt even go. Well her friend tells me she was just really busy and wouldnt be able to go and she didnt want me to feel bad so she didnt say anything. I dont buy it. What is up? I thought she liked me am I wrong? She like stood me up, whats going on?
2007-03-07 11:18:52 · 14 answers · asked by shaggy_dude10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do I do now? Move on? Try again? I haven't been able to talk to her 2 days since..
2007-03-07 11:19:32 · update #1
I hope this doesn't seem like im full of myself or something, I really liked this girl and I thought she liked me to, its just some people said she liked me and I should go for it, but others said she was just playing with me... I mean I would believe the excuse if she would have said it to me or even said anything to me for that matter but she hasnt made a single effort to talk to me since. I just need some advice, thanks.
2007-03-07 11:25:54 · update #2
She knew all along that she couldn't go. Sorry but she doesn't like you in that way.
2007-03-07 11:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's going on? For some people, flirting is just that, and doesn't mean anything, it's just fun - and it sounds like she's one of those people.
Also, some people (well, lots of people) have trouble saying "no" when they're asked out, so they just... kind... of... don't. They say other things, vague things, like "I don't know if I'm going or not - I'll get back to you tomorrow." Then they don't. Or they say nothing, and hope you won't, either.
Now, it would be nice if people said things they meant, and answered direct questions with answers you could make sense of, but a lot of people don't, or can't. She didn't stand you up, if that helps any - you didn't have a date, after all - but she did squirm out of giving you a clear idea of what was going on, which is not very polite and kind of cowardly.
Try not to make too much of this - it probably isn't a reflection on you, but on her. Let it go and flirt with someone else who isn't afraid to tell you directly what she thinks or wants. Good luck!
2007-03-07 11:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes flirting with you and maybe she just thought going to the basketball game wuz a little to much. a lot of girls are like that. She also could just have been busy but it is unlikely because if she really liked you she would have called. I think you should call her and talk to her about it maybe that will help you figure things out!
2007-03-07 11:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all I can say is that you have to keep trying and talk to her some more. A lot of girls don't like to hurt guys feelings and it is really hard for them to be pressured into things. I think maybe you should say "I really like you and i would like to go out with you, but if you think it isn't going to work then maybe we can still be friends, i just want you to know i really like you." If i were the girl you liked i would think you would be moving to fast and i would tell you to slow down and be friends for a while and maybe in the near future we could go out. well talk to her about it and dont let her ignore you... good luck:)
2007-03-07 11:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by Marya L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on-the girls is a flirt and enjoys turning boys on but yet too immature or maybe even too young to actually date.
2007-03-07 11:27:16
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I think that she may not like you and doesn't know how to tell you or she may have been busy. Talk to her or do what you would normally do to get her attention. If she continues to ignore you then move on because she may not like you but if she starts coming around, approach her and talk to her about how you truly feel.
2007-03-07 11:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by mamashortydoowop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be busy and wasn't able to go. But as for her not telling you. she might have been nervous about making the wrong impression on you or embarresing herself. Don't worry from what you have said about her it sounds like she REALLY likes you. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-07 11:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by Bina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** happens, keep on trying. If you too really get along well than give it another try and just straight up ask her out.
2007-03-07 11:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have her number, call her, or before a track meet, tell her you need to talk to her afterwards and not to leave. Step up!
2007-03-07 11:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by ladyeilwynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
She is not interested in you the same way and was just being nice.
See women, this is what men think when you are not direct.
2007-03-07 11:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋