ok so ive been asked out four times (im almost in highschool dont say im too youn to date becuz lotsa ppl already date in my skool) ive had to turn them all down cuz i dont know how to ask my mom if im allowed to date. i dont kno y its just akward and i dont want her going "is he cute? do have a crush on him?" all like im a baby. how do i tell her that i wanna date, not seriously or anything but for fun ya kno? thnx in advance
2007-03-07 11:13:57 · 14 answers · asked by lollipop_12321 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should got to your mom and act like an adult. Do what I did with my mom. I sat down with her when she wasn't busy and we talked. I told her about how I really liked this guy and he asked me to go out with him. All a mom wants is for her daughter to be safe with a guy. You shouldn't go behind your mom's back or anything because you want her to trust you. Just sit down and talk to her like a rational adult and then she'll understand.
2007-03-07 11:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty mature for your age. You are your own person and can make your own decisions. Just be smart and dont choose some 30 year old dirt bag or someone whos gonna take advantage of ya. At your age go for more fun and less teen-hormonal outburst. In the end you will grow as a person so much more. Show your parents that you can make good decisions and they will loosen up the restraints
2007-03-07 11:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by Stephen S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well ask your mom if you can have a "boyfriend" and try to explain to her what you want to do with them like go to movies hang out at each others house and tell her you arent going to make out or anything like that you just want a guy to hang out with. parents dont really understand the concept of what we think a boyfriend or girlfriend is so tlk to your mom about it and maybe she will let you or wht you could do is start being friends with the guy and have him come over and meet your mom or something and then if she likes him maybe you would be able to do more with him and call him your boyfriend... good luck :)
2007-03-07 11:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by Marya L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be thought of as mature then act so. A mature person who wants to know just asks. If you do not yet have the maturity to ask if you're allowed maybe you are too young.Isn't any voie going to come thundering down from the sky----Speak Up!
2007-03-07 11:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you say your afraid to ask your mom right and your almost in high-school so your in 8Th grade right.Well first tell her hey this boy asked me out and i don't want to date him if im not allowed to.I just want to get permission first.And say plz don't ask me if hes cute and all sorts of other questions.If you don't want to tell her yet just tell the boy yea and see if it works out tell your mom and say I've been dating this boy now for as long as you've been and say hes really nice and i like him and im almost in high-school so your going to have to let me stay with him or let me be.
That's what i would say.
Have fun and take my advice when i was your age and your grade had the same troubles and it worked out just fine.So dont worry
2007-03-07 11:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by daddys_girl_13_1993 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask her WHEN you can start dating to break the ice. Then she might ask you if you have been asked out. Dont make a big deal of this. You have to stop being nervous and just do it. Act like a young adult and grow up and ask.
2007-03-07 11:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by Hello11 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should ask you should just do it! lol. i don't know how to ask. honestly i haven't had to yet. i am a freshman and i don't feel that i am ready to have a serious BF or go out on dates and stuff! i hope everything works out for the best just remember that you shouldn't do this cause everyone else is doing it you should do it because you like someone!
2007-03-07 11:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♥nikki♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on your relationship with your mother. Just be like, "Hey, Mom, can we talk...?" But make sure you're mature about the whole thing. "I've been wanting to start dating, and people have shown interest but I've turned them down because I wanted your permission." And then take it from there.
2007-03-07 11:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by Faith 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
1. Ask your parents.
2. YES, you ARE too young. How would you feel having a kid at 15...... (because other kids already dated too.)
you have plenty of time to date. Focus on school and your grades or sports...
2007-03-07 11:17:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sparky 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well... u shold date someone, but dont tell her and if she ever asks about boyfriends (which most moms do) just say u already have 1. then shell ask why u didnt talk abot it and u just say " it never came up!"
2007-03-07 11:19:23 · answer #10 · answered by winrykin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋