I live in a college town w/ young students. I moved into the apartments and no one ever introduced themselves and everyone keeps to themselves. This new guy moved in and I don't know if it would be weird to go introduce myself. I myself am a student, so would it look like I'm trying to hard? Should I bring him something or go say hi?
2007-03-07 11:11:39 · 33 answers · asked by elle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why not? a case of beer or some other masculine "welcome" gift would be nice- even if it seems weird, at least you'll have a reason to say "hi" in the parking lot in the future instead of ignoring yet another person.
who knows? if you're thinking about it, you should do it- I've only had 2 people do that during apartment life and i'm still close to them today! it's a very kind gesture even if it's "hey if you have any questions about management or the area, i'm around sometimes, feel free to stop by."
2007-03-07 11:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by austin_texan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think you should. When I first moved into my house, two families came to say hello. Our next door neighbor's, and another elderly couple down the street. It made us feel very happy and welcome! About 1 1/2 weeks later, when a big ice storm hit, our next-door-neighbors called to make sure we were ok and if we needed a generator. To this day, we are still very good friends. My younger siblings get clothes handed down to them from the older girls who are my age (22ish) and our fathers always lend eachother equipment (and opinions) for fix-it jobs. During a superbowl one year, my neighbors came over with mini-pizzas and drinks and we just had a great night watching the big game!
Anyway, to my point, it'll give a great impression of you to your neighbor and could build a life-long friendship! If your own version of an ice-storm comes up, he might have your back for that like our neighbor did, or not, but still it never hurts to try!
I don't agree with what many people above me say about not bringing anything over, you could just bake a couple of cookies or whatever to let him know that you at least put in a little effort. If you reeeeeally don't feel comfortable with that, either bring over a bottle of wine or a case of beer, or just invite him to drop by if he ever needs anything or just wants to hang out.
Hope this helps. =))
2007-03-07 11:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by Leahhh♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong at all welcoming a new neighbor. But perhaps you should go with a friend just in case, because you never know what type of person the new guy is. If you've never met him before, for all you know he could be a serial killer or a rapist. It sound horrifying but you can never be too safe. I don't think you need to bring a present or cake etc.
2007-03-07 11:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by David Lee Roth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt take him anthing, but definately go and introduce yourself. About 1 year ago my husband and I moved into a unit, and although most neighbours said hello, the one directly next to us, seemed very stand offish. I would constantly try and make eye contact to say hello but he would never look at me and seemed very arrogant, i decided he was a jerk and for 8 months ignored him. Meanwhile my husband had introduced himself and they had stuck up a friendship. when i finally did meet him 8 months later i realised he was the most timid, gentle, helpful and shy person I had ever met. I had mistaken his shyness for rudeness and regret missing out on spending time with such a wonderful person. He has since moved, but we keep in close contact and my husband will be best man at his wedding next year, they became that good of friends! It can be daunting, but im sure your neighbour would love to have a friend in the block. Good Luck.
2007-03-07 11:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by han83b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say go say hi. Take an Apple pie with you from the local grocery store or something students like. It would just be nice to be friendly.
2007-03-07 11:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see him in the hall or something pass by and say hi then just say my name is _____. and keep going. like you just moved into that apartment and all this stuff. Before you know it you guys will be talking and getting to know each other.
2007-03-07 11:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by Bina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's not weird....just keep it casual. Stop by and say hi and tell him if he needs anything (like directions, information about the town, anything like that) you're in his building. That would be a really nice thing to do.
2007-03-07 11:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by Sara 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure go over take something simple with you a box of natural tea or something like that. dont stay long or even go in if its ok you will be able to do that later... have fun
2007-03-07 11:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by tspersonaltouch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go and say "hi" to him and offer some help if he needs. Every one may intend to hide himself in a new place to protect themselves but it doesn't mean they want to. It is just a matter of so-called shame I suppose.
2007-03-07 11:18:04 · answer #9 · answered by benjamin Y 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no harm in introductions, but keep in mind that his personality might not be the most social. sounds to me like you are pretty out going and not shy, but not too many people are like that. It might be best to wait until you "bump into each other" somewhere.
2007-03-07 11:16:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋