How do i get my partners ex to understand to f#*#* off and get her own life?

Question

I've been with my partner for over a year and when we first got together i didnt mind that he was friends with his ex, as i am with some of mine. But then his ex found out he had a new girl and started to text him more and call him more. ive told her i dont like it when i talked to her on the ph. when i was talking to her i asked her questions and that to find out a bit of her side to why my man ended things with her but all she did was lie. my partner has told her more then once to stop calling and texting but she wont. she even told both of us she still loves him. she told him 4-5 mths into our relationship she came back to town to get him back, but he told her no and go away (thats in a nice way). she wont get the pic that he dont want her and i dont want her around ether. so now she lives in the same town as us and because she cant get a hold of him because he has a new ph number shes been texting me to give her his number and to get him to talk to her. I didnt say anything back.

Answer 1

Sounds like your partner needs to step up and take control and until he does or she finds someone else to bother she will continue to bother you. Hang in there

Answer 2

It's called harrassment. Both you and your BF need to tell her that if she contacts either one of you again, you both will contact the police. Why are either one of you being so nice to someone who is making your life miserable? She should leave you both alone after that. If not? Follow through.

Answer 3

Keep ignoring the message and do not respond.
She will get the hint eventually.
if you run into her, ignore her and make sure she is not following youu around.. She sound like a stalker.

Answer 4

you can block her number you know. call the cell phone company they'll do that for you