Pls, help...some friends (both men and women), keep telling me that I am good looking...even if I don't ask them...
I have free time, sense of humour and other advatages I think :).
But I still can't find a girlfriend...I try only via internet, because here is soooo easy. In the reality I am very shy. But I am still not sure if the girls like me, it might sounds crazy but I often think if they joke that I am sexy or handsome...if they don't like that I am shy, if they are all lesbians, if they don't like that I am 21 and still clueless about relationships....and so on.
Tell me what do you think, thanks :)
2007-03-07 11:10:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's ok to be shy. But not too shy. That doesn't attract the women. BUT....you should try and master your shyness by stepping out and letting the women know you aren't afraid. I personally need the guy to make the first move. It's fine. Just try it. You've got nothing to lose, the rest of your life lays ahead and you'll advance. But if you don't do anything. You'll not make it too far. Hope that made sense, lol. I tried. Good luck!
2007-03-07 11:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by The Random Blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite normal to feel shy until you get some more dating experience under your belt. Keep dating, eventually you'll find that one girl who knocks you off your feet! (Just try not to be a whiner baby when you're out with anyone.)
2007-03-07 19:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, most girls dint mind a man who is shy, for like i know alto of girls like me who are shy. but a lot of girls like a guy who is adventurous, wild, athletic, handsome, charming, romantic, and smart. so if you fit into all the above categories, i dint see what your problem finding a girlfriend is.
but of course trusting me is not always smart when it comes to relationships, I'm under 15 anyway, but thanks for the points!!!!!
2007-03-07 19:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by luckygirl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... call me old-fashioned, but i don't believe in online dating. (no offense) it's just so impersonal. you know, i know it's tough, but try stickin' your neck out there and asking someone out. find a girl you like, hang out with her and get comfy around her as a friend. then, as her out and you'll feel comfy around her enough to ask and you'll have a solid base for her to say yes to!
if you're 21 perhaps you're in school still? def try around campus. and you're old enough to drink - maybe try going to bars with a few friends?
2007-03-07 19:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya man. Finally you'll snap and just go out and ask one.
Someday
2007-03-07 19:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by needsexualhelp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask the people that tell you if they like you, if they do, take her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-07 19:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋