When I was a teenage I fell in love with two guys, I married one and the other one ended up going to prison. My husband has been passed away now for seven years and Ive tried dating but keep thinking about the one in prison. I'm still in love with him and have been talking to him all the time he's been in. I'm now in a new relationship with a female and he's going to be getting out soon. I love my girlfriend and him but don't know what to do. My feelings for both of them are very strong. What would you do stay with the one your with now or go to your old love?
2007-03-07 10:49:06 · 9 answers · asked by Jennifer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think maybe you should just hang out with him and see how you feel, give it some time. If you love your gf, don't go and needlessly hurt her- it could be that you won't feel the same about him after a while- you could be in love with the memory.
2007-03-07 10:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in the relationship your in now why would you want to be with some one who has nothing to offer you. Pen-pals is good enough. Besides he will probably get out an not seem like the person who went in. He has had to change in there some how. And if he hasn't that is even worse.
2007-03-07 18:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by mommysgirl78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are so much in love with the one in prison go for him wait but if u are trying to forget the one in prison girl u better go out hit clubs and trust u gonna find someone who could love u even more than the one in prison.
2007-03-07 18:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by demon_bewitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really are too confused for anyone. Do you like men or women? Why do you want to go with a jailbird? I think you need to stop and do some serious thinking about who you are and just what it is that you want. Until then you are not ready for a relationship with anyone male or female.
2007-03-07 18:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a Christian? God's way really best, even if it's not what we want. I believe happiness is the result of doing what is right and serving others.....
2007-03-07 18:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you bi? o well start seeing him when he comes out and see if he is changed, just tell your gf he is an old friend
2007-03-07 18:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by Lets go 2 Candy Mt. Charlie!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stay with the one that doesn't have a criminal record. but that's just me.
2007-03-07 18:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by tara b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
* Old flames never burn out go to the old guy *
2007-03-07 18:52:36 · answer #8 · answered by Aaron B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with what your heart desires
2007-03-07 18:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋