Why do i feel so sad? I know my bf loves me and I love him...but he's so far away..and i miss him terribly..im just so sad! what can i do to be happy? :'(
2007-03-07 10:36:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you could go out and have fun, you never know u might meet someone closer to home who you can have fun with ;). Just keep your chin up, you will be with him soon enough, just have a good time and before you know it you will be in his arms again!
2007-03-07 10:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by prince14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to develop your own personal life too. Yes you miss him and that is normal, but you don't have to let that shut you down to where you just sit and feel sad 24/7. I doubt he would want that for you. Just look at it this way, if you have a fulfilling life when you are on your own, then you will be bringing a healthier person to the table in your relationship. All the things that make you you need to be fully present. It is what attracted him to you in the first place. Even if you lived close by there is still going to be times where you would be separate just from every day living anyway. Maybe not as much, but the concept is still the same.
2007-03-07 10:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by zyllee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the person you love is not around. But perhaps you have placed too much of your own happiness on the realtionship with him. You must be whole and complete without him. Perhaps this is what you are learning now. Value your relationship with him, it's ok to miss him, but you belong to yourself first and your happiness is not wrapped up in him. Try some different things that make YOU happy, as an individual. Take this time to discover who YOU are outside of him.
2007-03-07 10:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Volunteer at a local church or soup kitchen.
You are heartsick but not sad.
People who are truly sad are the poor and homeless.
Maybe you can help a foster child on a Saturday afternoon. Do coloring books with her, you'll make her so happy and you'll realize how lucky you truly are.
Remember, even though someone is far away, at least they still love you.
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2007-03-07 10:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in Love and away from your loved one is very hard to do. Many do very weird things during the separation. There is no one single thing you can do to changed this but you may try a host of things. For example, attending a Church of your choice or visiting a friend. You can also try attend school to keep yourself busy.
2007-03-07 10:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by MoPleasure4U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships don't usually last but if you have strong feelings for this guy then stay. Write to him, call him, or go visit him. On your spare time you need to find something that interest you and enjoy life. Don't depress your self over a guy that is not even there.
2007-03-07 10:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by mommysgirl78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to miss him a lot. Go out with some female friends shopping and have a good time!
2007-03-07 12:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by princessmunchi510 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go out with your friends and do something fun, like shop or go to a club :) that's what I would do. shopping is the most fun for me, or you could go the movies, i love comedies, they always put a smile on my face. talk to ur friends, eat ice cream, play a game!, go the mall, go on a shopping spree, buy new shoes....etc do things like that and see if it works out for you ♥
2007-03-07 10:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by Dia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur sad b/c he's not with u...it's like apart of u is missing...one way to get ur mind off of him is to go hang out w/ur friends and so something...
2007-03-07 10:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep in touch. but also realize that if he's going to be gone for more then a year then it's best to just break it off.
if you want to be happy, get a hobby.
2007-03-07 10:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋