Well..i been with this guy going on 3 months and hes nothing compared to my last 2 boyfriends! hes soo sweet and does anything for me...the problems is my "mom" doesnt want me with him..i tell her but she says they are all the same and doesnt approve of it..she claims that all guys want is one thing, i kno she doesnt trust me but ii try to talk to her but she just doesnt seems to listen..i want to chyll with him without having to hide it from her...wat should i do?!
2007-03-07 10:25:18 · 8 answers · asked by JB. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you live under moms roof not much you can do
2007-03-07 10:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anybody fool you! most of the time mom is right. My mom used to do the same to me when I was younger and I hated it but after she passed I realized she was just looking out for my best interest and how much I wish she was still here to butt in. If you feel like this is not the case. Maybe you should sit and talk to your mother about the situation.
Another thing I am a mother now and I am raising my sons to not bring around any female they are casually dating until they are sure of this person it saves everybody the heart ache.
You can have boy friends and live your life just don't jump into every relationship thinking your mom has to like them.
2007-03-07 18:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by mommysgirl78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your mom doesn't have a problem with him - she has a problem with you.
She probably saw the way you carried on with your previous boyfriends and is thinking that you're probably headed down the same path again.
Perhaps you embarassed yourself the way you acted in previous relationships?
When she said "men are after one thing" - that probably means that she thinks you have given it up too easily and she is embarrassed by your loose behavior?
Ask her if her problem is really with you, not him.
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2007-03-07 18:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing is how old r u...sec. is i went through the same thing w/ my parnets when i was 16...datin a guy my parents didn't approve of but u have to keep tryin it takes forever but keep tryin to talk to her i promise it will work b/c i'm now married to my husband n been w/ him for 4 yrs n married for 1 yr n 8 months almost 2 yrs of marriage just give it time...just keep talkin thats what i did cry sometime it tends to help
2007-03-07 18:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by sailormoonmei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that you should talk to your mom and explain it to her, explain to her that you really like him and that you feel that hes not like the rest. Try to talk to her at a proper time, when you think that she'll be willing to listen to you and reasonable. I hope that things btwn you and your boyfriend works out!i hope you the best
2007-03-07 18:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i say your mom is too overprotective.. If you like this guy and dont think there is anything wrong with him then dont worry about it. And if you think he wont do that "stuff" then you need to tell your mom that and get it into her head that you know who is right and who is not for you...
Korndizzle
2007-03-07 18:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by Korndizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him over and have him talk to your mom with you.
2007-03-07 18:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring him over to meet your mah.
2007-03-07 18:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋