It's not like I have a low self esteem or anything.. but I just dont know why would my bf love me as much as he claims... I dont know but why would anybody love me anyway? I know I'm not a bad person but I dont think I'm worth that much love anyway. I alot of the times have doubts about how genuine he is *or anybody else for that matter* when he ays he loves me.
Why am I like this and could he really be in love with me?
2007-03-07 10:11:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
sounds like you are having a pity party.........what happened to cause you to be so down on yourself??
2007-03-07 10:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u worry bout stuff like that than u are going to waste alot of time being misreable when u could be happy. allow yourself to be happy and get those stupid thoughts out of your head. one thing u are right about is it is impossiable for someone to truley love u if you dont love yourself, find out who u are make peace with that, except it and then i think ull find it alot easier to see y people love u.
2007-03-07 19:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by jen s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he sees something in you that you don't see in yourself. Most of the time others know us better than we know ourselves.
Let him love you and don't take it for granted by questioning him.
2007-03-07 18:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by Chick-A- Deedle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont want to believe it.
Perhaps you feel unworthy?
you feel as though, you do not deserve him?
Maybe because you have been hurt in the past and this is your defense mechanism to deny his love for you.
2007-03-07 18:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low self esteem, fear of rejection?
2007-03-07 18:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Lexy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur questioning that much about whether ppl love u or not then yes honey you do have low self esteem!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-07 18:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of doubting him and yourself, enjoy your boyfriend's company.
Much better, yes?
2007-03-07 18:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by tranquil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋