Well, I am in college and in one of my classes, there is this incredibly good looking guy. I seriously have trouble trying to focus in class, because he sat two rows in front of me and he's all I kept glancing at. Anyway, I thought "jee, I'll probably never get to talk to him". I'm really not the type of girl who'll go up to a guy and start a conversation. Usually, I just wait the other way around. Lo and behold, last week my professor assigned a group project. We had to pick from a list of 20 topic, and when we chose, I was VERY surprised to see him in my group. Although he looked like he was 22, max 24, I found out that he is 29. I simply have a hard time believing that, but I guess it is true because he was a sargeant in the army. Gosh, what should I do? I am 18 (will be 19 soon) and can't believe I am falling for him. I never ever thought Id like an older person, it's just he looks so young and is so attractive. We get along great, always laughing and stuff, but I don't know if he
2007-03-07 09:51:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-07 09:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. He is bound to find out sooner or later. First though, fond out if he has a girl friend. talk to him and get to know him, then lead into it. Dont come straight out and tell him. im 13, I have had crushes on people like... Ricky Ulman, justin Timberlake ( he is so gross now! ) and other stars like that. I know how you feel about liking someone older than u. Either tell him, or just be friends with him. Believe, i know the feeling and it is uncomfortable. Hope This Helps.
2007-03-07 18:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by lexielou10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait to see how the relationship works out. See if he makes any moves or shows interest in having an intimate relationship. If you're willing to date someone older then everything should work out fine!
2007-03-07 17:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by jleigh1216 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, really ....what is your problem? I think you should just go with the flow. It really doesn't matter how old you guys are as long as you feel comfortable and he is a gentleman and not a jerk.
Just have fun, you're still young
2007-03-07 17:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by ((surimi)) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out and make him happy. See that wasn't so hard to figure out.
2007-03-07 17:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know if you don't go for it.......so go for it. Best of luck to you.
2007-03-07 18:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah... i agree with them
2007-03-07 17:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by love to help! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋