I know this girl through a group we go to together that meets every week. In the begining I never even looked at her but i alwaysed hung out with her brother. I think she is 14 and I am almost 15. My parents wont let me date till i am older so this is out of the question. Well, I am crazy about her now but i dont want to tell her because i am afraid she might laugh and think i was joking or something and totally humiliate me. I was hanging out with a bunch of friends today and she was one of them. she was sort of looking in my direction and really wasn't looking anywhere else. I dont know what i should say. remember i am only 15 and my parents dont want me dating. what should i do or say?
2007-03-07 09:51:32 · 11 answers · asked by tONY g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should just be friends with her for now, try to get close but don't make it too obvious that you want her as a girlfriend
2007-03-07 09:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi ,
You do seem to be in a bind, you sound like your a very trust worthy kid. I would suggest going to your parents first , tell them that you have a crush on this girl. Ask them if there is any way that they will allow you to date her in a casual way with them around to chaperone. I guess you should also make sure that this girl actually likes you before you proceed any further. I think that if your honest and show that your responsible enough to your parents, that they might be willing to meet you half way. Tell them you understand why they don't want you dating when your too young , and you know all the consequences that could arise out of having sex at a young immature age. Show them that you can be trusted gain their trust first and then see what happens before you talk to the girl.
Good luck , sometimes parents can surprise you .
This is written by a parent with 3 girls
2007-03-07 10:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am an old man. But I say talk to this girl, and tell her how you feel. You can still do homework together. Go to school dances. Save the serious stuff until your parents allow you to date. Do not miss the chance to tell how you feel to this girl. Have confidence in yourself. Find out her interests, and learn all you can about those. This way you can open a conversation with her on something she is interested in. Don"t do nothing. Go for it. I wish you luck. Start building your friends list.
2007-03-07 09:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by canbarra 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Only 15" is the wrong attitude pal! You are already 15! This is the age where you start rebeling. It will be a bumpy road with your parents from here. You should definitely try to atleast talk to her, get to know her.
Just dont go too harsh with your parents.
Im 17 and hade similar problems
You can IM me if you wanna talk more about this (i sure would like to)
2007-03-07 09:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by remove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now i am being realistic ok and i am also a girl soooo what i think u should do s start talking to her and let you and her get to no each other BUT make sure she feels "good" around u then u can go a little farther and a little farther BUT if she is totally blowing u off find another girl but if she does like you maybe ask her out thenn about the date thing just bring it CASUALLY up with your parents but if they absolutely say no u can still go out with a person if u dont go on"dates" but im sure your parents would let u go to like a football game with her or basketball ame with her so good luck!
2007-03-07 10:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to just hang out with her a whole lot but dont be to pushy. If she likes you she will eventually show you signs that she does. Keep her as a close friend and get to know her better. Then eventually she may become more.
2007-03-07 09:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by MzNikkiLC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know you don't want to hear "Listen to your parents" lol
Seriously ,I think that considering your options, maybe you should just stay friends with her for the time being.If your feelings for her persist you'll know it's real.And by that time maybe you'll be allowed to start seeing her.Just let her know that you feel a little spark but it's too early to act on it.Good Luck !
2007-03-07 09:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by tammie1ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you feel in private trust me the chance of her saying yes is probably better than her saying no and hey just keep the dating things under wraps
2007-03-07 09:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by TheOneNOnlyTK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm um well if she keeps looking at u maybe she likes u back and ur 15 u can like just date her behind ur parents back unless ur a goody-goody kid
2007-03-07 09:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by Tori 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude don't say anything,,, just get her alone, and reach over to kiss her...... If you guys are really crazy about eachother, it will just happen... keep your mouth shut,,, only talk to get her alone...
dont tell her how you feel ,, show her....
2007-03-07 10:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋