Don't do it.
Death is boring.
2007-03-07 09:39:31
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answered by Mighty C 5
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to my knowledge no insurance doesn't pay off on suicide. Ok no doubt that you have had it extremely hard. But there is hope, maybe there is away to fix up this condo and turn around and sell it for a higher amount, or maybe you could rent it out and find yourself another place to live. there are always other possible solutions. like the first answer said on here a debt consolidator is a good idea. most importantly suicide is not an answer. Because bad things happen, but good things happen to, and there are good reason to keep trying, keep living, because you don't know what fortunes could come your way. I use to be suicidal (bi-polar symptoms) and when I was in that low I could think of nothing but suicide as an answer, I thank God all the time that I didn't, because since then life has really given me some blessings. Don't give up!
2007-03-13 23:23:02
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answered by Kellie 5
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I had an almost identical situation. I took care of my mother who had Cancer, for 18 months. She passed away, and my father had died young. I was suppose to get married after my my mothers affairs were taken care of. I didn't. He showed up on my doorstep with 2 women, he said were his cousins. Ya Right! I took over the family home, which was too large for me. It came along with over an acre in the suburbs. It became my nightmare!
I became so depressed, the DR.'s put me on too much medication and I fell into a dark hole. Every thing that could go wrong, went wrong. I started buying so much crap off TV, my Bank Statements looked like a banner for a football field.
I prayed and thought, if I don't get out of this house they are going to carry me out. So, I dumped it on the Buy-AS- Is Market. These two guys thought they suckered me into a good price. They thought I was some dummy that just fell off a potato truck. HA!
That was the best thing I did. Sold it, lock stock and barrel. I called an estate buyer, who gave me a chunk for things I'll never really miss. I went and got an apartment. That was 3 years ago, I have not looked back. I don't take medications, except a couple now, and have a life.
Just do it, sell it As Is, and move on. You'll be happy once again.
If I won a million $$$'s I'd still live in an apartment. I loath maintenance!
2007-03-07 18:07:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Um I am in the same boat as you. However I am going to not do that sort of thing. You need some help with your self esteem and understand that the only thing going bad for you now is debt to a company who doesn't even know you exist. File for bankruptcy or just don't worry about it. I am telling you from experience that life is short enough without thinking along those terms. I hate saying this and this is totally wrong but.... I would insure the hell out of that condo and burn that mother ****** down before I would even consider anything else.
2007-03-07 17:42:12
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answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5
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Suicide is never an answer......There is always something waiting around the corner. I can't imagine the pain you are going through but i would love to talk to you. Everyone needs someone to listen and I'm good at that. Who knows we may strike up a friendship and you may change your mind : ) P S Insurance will not pay out on suicide. Is there someone you'd be leaving behind that you want to take care of? Perhaps you might consider what they would go through if you committed suicide.
2007-03-07 17:45:56
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answered by backwoodscountrywoman 2
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Dear Depressed,
Following any of the advice given here by those (like Paul) who think they know failsafe means how to do what you're suggesting...they just don't know what they're advising. Using any of their means will only further complicate your already oppressive conditions and still not resolve them.
Acting in any way that they suggest
is a coward's way and would leave a trail of broken hearts as your legacy.
And besides, if you think that insurance companys don't catch on and void the payoff anyway is just not clear thinking. They'll do everything necessary NOT TO PAY OFF.
Instead, gather up your own backbone and ask for advice from professionals like an Estate Planner, an Accountant, an Attorney (they do free consults, almost all of them) and a health care provider like a psychologist who can provide you with a means of coping with things as they stand at this moment.
Make no mistakes, things do and will change if you take the first step in a direction of being open to receive help.
Suicide is not the answer. Shaking things up by getting _angry_ at those conditions you need to change is. When we become severely depressed, it's because we're accepting conditions without using any of our own inherent anger as it should be used, directed at the conditions and not at yourself.
There's nothing wrong with you that a good swift kick in the butt won't fix and get you started to a new and improved life. It's all worth it, man, you're just choosing the coward's way out. It's NOT too late to fix and improve. You'll only know that once you've taken those necessary steps to do it.
I empathize with you, pal, but I'd rather kick your butt to wake you up to the possibilities you're ignoring.
Good Luck and do let's hear back from you once you've awakened to your options and changed your life. You really ought to be counting your blessings instead of counting yourself OUT! But of course, you're in the middle of being "Poor Me" so you can't see your own blessings.
Your "faith" is being tested.
2007-03-15 15:23:36
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answered by Moe J 3
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You need help. Insurance does usually not pay out on suicide.
Call your local distress centre they can give you a contact who can help. My wife passed away too after 35 years and i managed to survive.You can find the number for disstress centres in your phone directory on the first page.
2007-03-14 20:49:17
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answered by Maka 7
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How sad. Do you have kids? If so imagine how THEY will feel if you do end your own life. There is a way out of your depression, you just need to find help. See a psychiatrist, and since it sounds like you can't afford one, you can see a pastor, they will usually do counceling at no cost. Please think about the other loved ones in your life.
2007-03-14 20:10:53
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answered by hopetohelpyou 4
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Insurance companies will pay on suicide after 2 years of the policy being in force. Take a kayak and paddle due west from the west coast with 2 gallons of water. make the water last 5 days then turn around and try to make it back with no water. If you make it back you we re NT supposed to die anyway good luck!
2007-03-07 17:43:30
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answered by carnivore al a mode 2
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Please don't kill yourself... I know that everyone gets down sometimes and we think that there is no way out of it but there is..You just have to get out of the condo and do something.. Go to the movies every once in a while or something.. You never know who could be out there waiting to fall in love with you and change your life for the better. =)
2007-03-07 17:37:04
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answered by You don't need to know that just yet... 4
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Sounds to me like you need a break from life for a bit. I advise you check yourself into the hospital inpatient center for a few days.
Insurance doesn't pay on suicide.
File bankruptcy.
2007-03-14 20:07:40
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answered by kbib12 3
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