What Is Love?

Question

i want a good description of Love and how can you tell if you are in love or if it is just a crush

Answer 1

(baby dont hurt me, dont hurt me, no more)
i have no idea but when you find out let me know

Answer 2

Crush is based totally on physical attraction,is mostly biological. Crush basically selfish where real love is basically selfless. Crush is weakened by time and separation where real love strengthened by time and separation.
Love is patient this means willing to give a relationship time to grow at natural pace.
Love is kind means respect the feelings and emotions of others.
Love is not jealous means wants the best for others.
Love is not proud...a truly great person however does not need to exalt himself.
Love is not arrogant
Love always covers means to over in silence, to keep confidential.
Love always perseveres always stands its ground and hold out.It even love in the face of unreturned love. real love will last though all sorts of trials,tribulations and stresses.
Love is gentle It is not easily offended.
and love is forgiving...it doesn't hold grudges when it has been wronged, it doesn't remain resentful.

I hope I helped you....

Answer 3

people have there on descriptions on love. Everyone is different.I think it's when someone is very important to you and you put there well being and happiness ahead of your own. And if it's true love..you would die for them.


and as a thing that is said all the time... You just know when you are in love. YOU KNOW. there isn't any question about it.

Answer 4

Love is a deep, complex feeling. Its when you fell a certain "comfort zone" around the person you like. Its when all you wanna do is be with each other, and wanna be close. You dont just zone each other out, you listen with care. You get a tingly feeling in your tummy everytime you see the person. People say the tingly-ness wears off, but for me it neve did, it still get it!

Answer 5

very good question..probably no one can ever answer this correctly.... but that should'nt stop us trying...let me give a go..
Love is something which u feel u can never live without that person...
Crush is something of shortlived... if u are busy in something or dont think about her probably u will forget about the person soon...

Answer 6

I got this from the website below I think it is a great answer!

Am I In Love?

It is a very common question, "How can I tell I'm in love?", but it is not an easy question to answer. What feels like love to one person may be nothing more than attraction to another. Some people fall in and out of love quickly and often while others are never really in love as much as they are in lust. This can get confusing when you are a teen because romantic love is a relatively new concept for you and you don't know what to expect. You are overwhelmed with all sorts of new feelings and social pressures. They are confusing. What is love? What makes you want a romantic relationship with one person and not another? How does your heart choose a partner? Why does love end? These questions can't be easily answered.

One of the most confusing quasi-love feelings is lust. Lust is a very powerful, very intense feeling of physical attraction toward another person. Lust is mainly sexual in nature - the attraction is superficial based on instant chemistry rather than genuine caring. Usually we lust after people we do not know well, people we still feel comfortable fantasizing about. It is very common for people to confuse lust for love. But why? What is it about lust and love that make them so easy to mix up? If lust is all about sex, how can a relationship without sex be about lust? Teens struggle with this because they see lust in the Biblical sense, but lust isn't that sinister. Lust is about physical attraction and acting ONLY on physical attraction. Love is about much more than that. Yet many teens (and to be fair, many adults) confuse an intense attraction for some sort if divine love. For teens, since feelings of attraction are still new and since pop-culture sells sex and love as one package, it is very easy to get the two mixed up.

Lust is clearly not love. Love is based on more than just physical attraction. Sure, attraction is a factor, but love goes deeper than that. Love is based on caring, friendship, commitment and trust. When you are in love it is as if you have your best most trusted friend at your side AND you feel physically attracted to them. It is the best of both worlds! Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one anothers happiness. Love is not about jealousy. It is not about conflict. It is not about testing. Love is a positive feeling. If it is tainted by mistrust, jealousy, insecurity or spitefulness it is not really love but merely a pale copy. Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. Love should feel good. It should not feel bad. Love should make you want to be a better person, it should not lead you to do something self destructive. Love is not demanding of your spirit but lifts it and makes it glow. Love is a good thing. Anything less is lust, deep friendship or attraction. So the sappiness aside, the question remains, how can you tell you are in love?

There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person but there are some tell-tale signs that love is blooming (or growing deeper). If you agree with 7 of the following 9 statements you are probably in love.

You know, because you have been told by your significant other, that your deep feelings are returned in kind.
The object of your affections makes you feel special and good about yourself.
If/when you feel jealous it is always fleeting; you trust your partner not to betray you or hurt your relationship.
Nothing makes you feel as serene as when you and your partner are together.
When you fight with your partner you usually make up within a few hours and you always agree that nothing is more important than you both being able to express your true feelings (even if they sometimes cause conflict).
Your partner never asks you to choose between him/her and your loyalties to your family and friends - if you do choose him/her over them you always have a good reason and it is always YOUR decision, and your decision alone.
Neither you or your partner feel the need to test the other's loyalties or feelings.
You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.
If sex is part of your relationship it is by mutual desire and agreement without the slightest hint of commitment testing or persuasion.

Answer 7

to me right now is nothing...i loved someone before but...it worked but it didnt feel right...so i began the hatred...now since im bored i am think of love now:)

Answer 8

its that feeling you get right after you get finished playing with yourself