Okay, there's a girl I like. she rides the same school bus as me. all i know about her is that our dads used to be coworkers, her first name, and that we're about the same age.
I don't know the first thing about girls. i get kind of nervous when girls i don't know talk to me, and stutter, and feel awkward and embarrassed.
2007-03-07 09:22:11 · 22 answers · asked by Phobos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look at it this way. If you don't talk to her what do you get. NOTHING! So if you talk to her and she rejects you. You end up with NOTHING!
Do nothing is the same as being rejected.
If you tried. You tried. At least you know and always remember practice makes perfect so the more you start talking to girls the better you will get at it.
Remember when opportunity knocks....someone has to answer the door. But its always a choice. Do nothing. Or take the chance. Taking the chance at least you know you tried.
2007-03-07 09:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by xmaliciousonex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay...Here's the thing. Since you don't know her very well, just try talking to her one day. Don't be a stalker, but just try to get to know her more, before anything else. Try and find something you have in common and start with that. And there is nothing to be nervous about, really. I used to be the same when when I talked to guys, but I realized it was pointless. If I was still nervous about talking to guys I didn't know, I wouldn't have found my boyfriend of now two and a half years. I'm assuming that you are still in middle school or maybe a freshman in high school so you still have time. Just give it a try, you have nothing to loose; and dont be afraid of rejection. it happens, but you just have to live and learn. don't live your life in fear. Life is way too short. feel free to email me if you have any more questions. GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-07 09:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are probably just as nervous as you...It's okay..she would probably be very flattered if you talked to her...I don't know of a single girl that would think it's funny if you were nervous...it would just make them feel like, wow...this guy is nervous around ME!!
Ask her if she wants to hang out...go for a bite to eat....the mall... or if you can't do that, just say "hey"... then a bit more every day...Ask her how's it going...or open ended questions that require more than a yes or no answer... you don't have to talk a ton until you are more comfortable... The more you talk to her, the easier it will be...Girls really aren't scary...we like to talk about pretty much anything, so you'll be fine... good luck to you!!
2007-03-07 09:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First yhink of her as some one you know. You really do know her, you that your dad and her dad were ex-coworker, her first name.
Best way to know some one is to say and ask how they are doing/ This gives her a chance to respond to you. Take your time and listen to what she is saying. Do not interupte her if she is talking with some one else on the bus. Ask her if it ok to you to send her e-mail to better talk with her later. Ask what she likes ooutside of school. Do this over serveal days. If she is interested she will respond.
2007-03-07 09:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh u are adorable.... guys not knowing to much about females and being honest about it is a turn on, Do not change u just make sure to like urself the way you are, then u will become comfortable enough to talk to her and get to know her.
The most important thing to know is that everyone is different.. so the best thing- is to be yourself. If she likes you, which I think she will/ cuz u seem like a good person/ she will open up to you and get to know u also
god luck!
2007-03-07 09:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by aprilrain218 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone is insecure and has personality issues.
Here's what you do...Forget about how hot she is and focus on making conversation.
Girls love when you are actually listening to what they're saying.
Look at her posture and facial expressions...try to make her feel you are into her.
Laugh when she laughs.
Smile when she smiles.
Show her you can relate to her...but remember stay focussed on her words, have a peice of gum or breath mint, and be confident.
Most of all be yourself...if she doesn't dig that about you. She's not worth it.
peace
2007-03-07 09:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by d_miano81 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls don't bite. It is ok to talk to them and there is nothing to be nervous about.
2007-03-07 09:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by mommyramey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER WITH THE SIMPLE STEPS FIST OF ALL YOU CANT BE SCARED you need to relax be faithful believe you can talk to her wihtout being nervouse and besidesask her out for dinner if your old enough if not hey try to talk to her about a topic girls like for example fashion then go on from there.
2007-03-07 09:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by boricua chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some self confidence girls like to talk about themselves so compliment her hair, I promise you can have a 10 minutes conversation about that alone, just be cool and don't try too hard.
2007-03-07 09:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that happens to a lot of guys. they get nervous. just be yourself! like if you have a fake personality, and she likes you. how long can you pretend to be this totally different person? it probably won't work out long if you aren't yourself!:)
so go talk to her . and whatever. i know guys are afraid of rejection, but you should be like a boomerang. you should be able to bounce right back up when you're thrown down.. eventually. you'll find the right girl:)
2007-03-07 09:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by Kodak Moment 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋