I'm so upset I just need someone to talk to.. I'm being put down byt friends and my family hates me :'(

Question

probably gonna call me a drama queen, well yeah i am, ifeel so afraid of school dont want 2 go, my mum had mental problems cant talk to her.. i just want someone to talk to :'( :'(

Answer 1

talk to me if you like, i need someone to talk to as well, kind of a similar situation, bit different in areas but to the same effect

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Answer 2

So life sucks, huh? It does at the mo for me as well. I won't go into why but I'm a bit older than you. You may need some time out. We have all been teenagers once but most of us have forgotten what it was like to be one.
When I was one I would get through the long nights by listening to late night radio under the pillow (no internet then!) and reading. Long walks also helped. Other things may help you.
When you get back to school, work out what the problem is and talk to someone (there are usually counsellors on campus now). As for your friends, wait until they grow up.
Your family hates you? In what way? Is there someone else you can talk to, such as a neighbour? Is your Mum getting help for her illness? She needs your support, remember.
Finally you are not a drama queen. You are a young woman just going through a tough time. Get some sleep; you never know it may look better in the morning.

Answer 3

Sounds like you need a support group to share your fears and express your feelings to. Groups are a wonderful experience as others there have much the same issues as you do. You are not alone and there are many wonderful people out there that will help you through difficult times. If your mom has mental issues she's most likely hooked up with some service. Contact them or talk to your school nurse or guidance counselor and ask where you can find support systems in your community. Don't wait, there are friends for you waiting and wanting to help. Internet friends are OK but you NEVER KNOW FOR SURE who's on the other end. You need human contact for optimum help.

Answer 4

starlett I am not going to call you a drama queen I think you sound like a girl with a lot of emotional turmoil. Having a mother with a mental health problem must be very bad for you, I am sorry that you feel so bad. You need to talk to a professional councellor go to see your doctor or speak to your school nurse, and get some help. Do not let your so called friends put you down, have a go back!!! Talk to us on answers anytime, you have friends who will listen to you and not judge you. I hope you will be alright I am worried about you.

Answer 5

I looked at your page, and I think you are 13?

Your body is going through a lot of changes, and your hormones are all over the place. Teenage years are pretty rough on your emotions. I seem to remember thinking that everyone was against me, crying a lot, and feeling desperately unhappy at times. Your friends will be feeling just as mixed up, and that's why they will be great one day, and moody and snappy another day. They're feeling insecure too, but everyone has a different way of hiding it.

You just need to get through these years, then enjoy the rest of your life because things will get better, and when you leave school you will find that people around you are much nicer to you.

Answer 6

100 times a day, someone posts the exact thing on here.

You're friends AREN'T friends if they really put you down. And your family does not hate you. This is all in your mind. You're a teenager and we ALL go through this as a teen.

So talk to someone. An aunt? Guidance counselor? Teacher? There are lot of preditors out there that would love to take advantage of a young girl. Just make sure it's someone that can be trusted. No one hates you.....believe me. It's teen ANGST.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

You can e-mail me, I am always open to talk to, plus, I can understand what you are going through. I am a very good listener too!
You could probably talk to a teacher you trust or your school guidance counsellor or an aunt or cousin you can trust. There are numbers to call as well.
In USA
Youth Crisis Line 1-800-448-4663
General Crisis Counselling 1-800-785-8111

In Canada
Kid's Help Phone [phone] (24 hrs)

Answer 9

I am sure there must be someone you can count on. Is there a counsellor at your school? you might be able to speak to them.
As well, if your mum had mental problems you should go and see a Doctor as you might be suffering from Depression.
Why don't you write down everything you feel just now or try and keep yourself busy with homework or housework, I'll take your mind off that. Have a hot bubble bath and some hot chocolate!

Answer 10

First of all ur not a drama queen, u just need some help "n" here's some p-ple that can help...

1. If ur friends "n" family don't want 2 talk try a counselor. It's there job + they have experience.

2. If you don't want a counselor try a teacher they can u.

Answer 11

you can go to groups with people who have the same problem and talk to them there are goin through the same problem. Why are you afraid of school talk to a teacher if someone is bullying you as it has to stop your school work needs to be good for your future. Don't let people worry you be strong and ignore people. There is alot of people with same problem that is thinking the same as you, just watch who you talk to and don't talk to the wrong people who will not listen and treat you wrong as you are down they might take it as advantage.

Please be care full
I am hear to listen