I dont know if im over my first bf. After I broke up with my first bf...i was really sad, but i ignored it (he broke up with me because i wouldnt have sex with him, and we dated only for a month). After him i had another bf, but we eneded up breaking up. I keep looking at his myspace account and reading what other girls write to him. Am i still not over him? Or is it something else?Please help!
2007-03-07 09:14:43 · 6 answers · asked by mangomonster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you only dated a month...and he broke up with you because you didn't have sex......as hard as it might sound...I don't think yal were in love so it shouldn't be to hard to move on. Maybe you aren't fully over him...but you could just not want him to have anyone else so that's why you are checking on him.
He ain't worth it defianantly...get another guy.
2007-03-07 09:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still not over the first time being rejected. I went through something similar with my first "boyfriend" (although he claimed we were never official in his breakup email, lol). It wasn't so much that HE broke up with me. It had more to do with the fact that I was dumped. It hurts and it sucks. Looking back, I think it's hilarious that I even liked him to begin with, but I still recognize WHY I was so upset about the whole thing.
Give yourself some time, quit going to his page (honestly, a little willpower goes a long way), and when you're least expecting it, you'll find a really amazing guy who will make you wonder how you ever got so hung up on the first guy. :)
2007-03-07 17:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by elizabeth_ashley44 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get over him stop looking him up on myspace. Doesn't sound like you're ready to date actually. Just have fun. Stop worrying about boys. You don't need to have a boyfriend to be somebody.
2007-03-07 17:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u should'nt have any feelings for him because if he loved u he would of never broke up wit u and he would of understaned that u are'nt ready for sex yet.and if u feel like u still love him try to get over him becuz he does'nt love u.find sommeone who would really love u and would understand that u are'nt ready for sex yet.goodluck!
2007-03-07 17:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by brenda r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, get over it....get a hobby, love is like a cruise missile...it will come like it or not when you're not expecting it
2007-03-08 03:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by rihannsu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over the loser. all he wanted you for was sex anyways..he's not worth you feeling bad
2007-03-07 17:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by ♫♥♪♬♥♪Try Me♫♥♪♫♥♪♬ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋