My spring break is coming up soon, and I'm in college and this girl that I'm friends with and yes I do like her more than friend is in high school, Its not that much of an age difference shes 17, and i'm 18 but I was wondering if I should Ask her if she wanted to go with me to Florida for spring break, I know we are just friends, and aunt and uncle have a house down there and so that wouldn't be a problem, so all she would have to pay for is her plane ticket, but I don't know if I should ask her or not, what do you think? Should I ask her even though we are just friends, or should I wait until maybe one day we will be boyfriend/girlfriend?
thanks
2007-03-07 09:10:38 · 15 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why the heck not. Go for it. See what she says.
2007-03-07 09:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might as well ask her, tell her you'll both have a good time, but don't mention anything about being friends or a relationship. If you like her, start flirting with her when you get down there :) ... then you two will be closer when you get back!
Only thing is, if indeed she is in high school, make sure it's ok with her parents too! :) Or else you'll be charged with kidnapping... :P
2007-03-07 17:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't wait and see if "Maybe" you'll become boyfriend/girlfriend. You need to be a man. Make the first move. Ask her to that srping break. What harm could a fun week or two at the beach do? If you play your cards just right, she might just like you the way you like her.
2007-03-07 17:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True dat!! Don't ask... Tell her.... Like this...." Hey, you know what I'm doing this Spring Break? (Pause) I'm taking you down to Florida to my Aunt/Uncle's place to go chill and have a good time... what do you think about that?" Let your boy know how that goes. Good luck.
2007-03-07 17:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitley ask her! The age difference is not a problem, just make sure you tell her she has to buy a plane ticket! at 17 you dont tend to have alot of money........
2007-03-07 17:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking her wont hurt nothing,whats the worst she can say "NO" big deal....ask and when you ask tell her there is no sexual commitment in fact she would Have her own ROom or ask her if she would like to bring a friend to so she feels like she is more in control of her decision
2007-03-07 17:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by roncj88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definently you should ask her dont wait any longer and whne yall down there tell her how you feel too ...pleasse dont hold on to you secrets any longer go for it have fun during your break and hopefully you will come back with a new girlfriend.........good luck and have fun :)
2007-03-07 17:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by lilmizzd2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HER... AS FRIEND WHEN U GET MORE CLOSE WITH HER ASK HER THE YES...AND THERES NO DOUBT THAT IT IS GONNA BE A GOOD SPRING BREAK....IF SHE SAYS NO *SHE ISNT* U JUST LOOK 4 SOME ONE MORE CONVENIENT... BUT ASKE HER AS FRIEND IS THE BEST CHOICE...
GOOD LUCK!! BYE...
2007-03-07 17:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by mia_2565 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her, but if you want something more than friendship, at least pay for her plane ticket
2007-03-07 17:15:02 · answer #9 · answered by boostd92awd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should deffinetly ask her. but let her know she would have to buy her plane ticket.
2007-03-07 17:16:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ladybugisme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋