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2007-03-07 08:50:44 · 38 answers · asked by JamQueen 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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My views are this, who cares. My sister is dating someone who is the opposite of her, and its causing problems in the family cause a couple are racist...so...its kinda chaotic. The people believe that interracial dating/marriage is against the bible. Which...it isn't. if your religious, theres no place in the bible that states God is racist or that dating someone of a different race is bad. In fact, Moses married someone who was of a different race, and someone made fun of them and condemned them, so God gave that person leprosy. Not saying he'll do that to someone now, but, I think its a strong statement that God doesnt care.

If your not religious, theres an even less reason to care. I mean, in a society where we are supposed to not care about skin color, there should be no question. Society says its ok.

Now, the only place I would not condone it, is if like...they have a kid or something, and they place where they'll grow up is extremely racist...basically making that kids life hell...then id say date, but no kids type of thing. But, you can't tell someone that they can't date someone they like cause hes a different race. That would make you racist, not saying you are the one saying it, just figuratively.

2007-03-07 08:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Mashu 4 · 0 0

Hello fellow queen...LOL. I think interracial dating is great. It shows how much we have grown, that we can look past skin color or origin and look at what is inside.

I am white, and I dated a black guy for several months. I had such a good time with him. Although I married a white man, I definitely am glad I had that experience, because I would have missed out on a lot if I didn't see past the color.

Love should be colorblind.

2007-03-07 08:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by queenB 2 · 1 1

This is going to come off sounded a bit two-faced, but...
my very first girlfriend (as in sexually) was Hispanic.
I've flirted and made a few passes at a few black chicks.
I've found women from Asia and India to be quite attractive, although they were unapproachable.

However, it is odd that I still find something within me feeling disturbed when a black guy is with a white chick.
Why is that?
I don't get that same feeling when Asian or Hispanic men date white chicks.

I've got close men friends who are black...so I wouldn't call myself racist.
But I don't know WHY I get a troubled feeling about it.
Who knows - maybe its an O.J. Simpson reaction.

2007-03-07 09:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0 0

I'am a white female and am engaged to a black man. And there is nothing wrong with it at all. As long as you love each other and care about each other thats all that matters. And know that you will get looks and you will get stares. I live in Wisconsin and people here have said and done some mean things to us, but we don't let that hurt us we know who we are and what are relationship is about and that we love each other. And know that you may have certian family members (especially older generations) may have a hard time with it or not like it all. But if you love your partner stand strong they may the best thing to have ever happened to you. I know my fiance is.

2007-03-07 09:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by libra0484 1 · 0 0

Interracial dating is something that should not seem bad. If someone is dating interracially, it is THEIR choice and obviously that makes them happy. There is nothing wrong with it... as long as people are happy in their relationship.

2007-03-07 08:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by paperflower 2 · 0 1

I see interracial dating as just two people dating. There's nothing wrong about it. If you like that person then you should go for it no matter what race they are.

2007-03-07 08:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Super Haitian 3 · 1 1

I think there is nothing wrong with interracial dating! I am married to someone that is mexican and I am white. I couldn't love him more. To me when I look at him I don't see the color of his skin I see what is in his heart.

2007-03-07 08:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

I can tell you its pretty hard work . Im not married to someone of a different colour to me, but he is from a different country, background and religion, we share different views and beliefs and sometimes it proves a really difficult strain on our relationship.

Some mixed cultural relationships work out, some dont. Any relationships come with there fair share of problems, but considerably so when its a relationship like mine.

2007-03-07 09:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ugh... I don't even believe that you asked this kind of question. I still don't know why people are doing this. Asking this question is a bad thing to do though your will is good. I will erase "interratial" and say dating between a guy and a girl, why should we care about the ethnical group they belong to? Isn't it love? Isn't it for all?

2007-03-07 09:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by MagicWand 3 · 1 0

Any relationship is beautiful and wonderous. I think that interracial dating and joining should be respected just like any othre marriage because love can occur in any race and place.

2007-03-07 08:54:24 · answer #10 · answered by Alex L 2 · 3 1

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