Ladies, would you be ok with your male roommate walking around the apt. naked?
If you lived with a male roommate,not a boyfriend who you spilt an two bedroom apartment with and split all costs with, would be ok if he would occasionally casually walk around nude?
For example walk from the bathroom to his room or on very hot days (we have no AC)
If you would be ok with it, would him having an occasional stiffy( i totally understand that sometimes men just get them for no reason especially in the morning) make you be not ok with it?
2007-03-07 08:49:55 · 42 answers · asked by surfrchik 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
no i'd get horny if he was hawt!
2007-03-07 08:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's a conversation that the two of you should have had prior to moving in with each other. If you've been roommates for some time and have been accepting this behavior, it would seem pretty odd to suddenly have an issue with it.
Unless......... there is something that you are omitting from your question. Perhaps you have developed feelings that go beyond that of a roommate, and his walking around naked is making the situation unbearable (or should I say tempting) for you.
2007-03-14 20:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by feefee2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naked Man needs to get a grip. Naked is reserved for the shower and your own bedroom with the door closed when you share a flat. I don't care if you have a/c or not, that's just an excuse. He needs to put on shorts when he's going to walk in common areas. He sounds like he's very impressed with his own penis, which would be fine if he lived alone.
2007-03-15 02:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My roommate is a chick too, but we are both nudists and spend most of our time at home naked. When our boyfriends are over they are usually naked, too, and I have no problem with it. We all, of course, respect each other and never do anything "intimate" outside of our bedrooms, but occasionally one of the guys will get an erection "just because." Because of the relationship we all have, it really becomes something we joke about.
2007-03-12 10:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by spikeit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not be ok with it, you are paying your share of the bills too and he should respect you. There is no reason he couldn't wrap a towel around his waist before he leaves the bathroom. I would say he must be trying to impress you. If he is like a brother to you, well then that would be just disgusting, would you allow your brother to walk around naked?
2007-03-15 03:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by hopetohelpyou 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a male roommate who is just a roommate. We live in close quarters (it is a 2 bedroom apartment) so we are going to see things. Who cares? We're both adults and it certainly isn't something I haven't seen before. He lives here too...has equal rights. If he does, he does. I don't pay attention to it.
2007-03-07 15:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by emt_me911 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on the kind of relationship you guys have.Do you feel comfortable with him in the nude.It's just as much your place as it is his.Maybe he could be kind enough to use a robe or towel when going from one room to the other.And if you don't mind him walking around naked then I guess there is no problem.
2007-03-15 05:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by cynomynG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be okay with it because he sounds like he has a little bit of an exhibitionist streak (pardon the pun) in him. If he is not a boyfriend but walks around naked when he knows you can see him, and he is occasionally stiff, then whether that is "normal" or not, it is a perfect opportunity for trouble if he is looking for a convenient person for romping around with. If this is not what you want to happen, then I would tell him to keep his clothes on around you. If you don't define your personal boundaries, he will define them for you and you may or may not like the results.
2007-03-07 08:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think its completely unreasonable and rude for a roommate to act this way. I would NOT feel comfortable with that, even if we were dating. And I certainly wouldn't want to see him giving me the Ol' One Eye in the mornings. Its gross and rude. I'd tell him that he comes out with boxers and a tee on or he needs to find someplace else to stay!
2007-03-07 09:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Disgusting
2007-03-15 04:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ash c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm gettin' up there in years, a granny of 7! Yet, on one hand, I'd be ok with my male room mate steakin' thru our apartment if he only did it occassionally! But on the other hand, when you realize how much dna stuff falls off the human body, maybe your room mate should keep his clothes on while in shared rooms of the apartment!
2007-03-07 14:03:32 · answer #11 · answered by SmallVoiceInBigWorld 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋