while he was chatting with me on the phone. His attitude towards me since has changed. Was I wrong in telling him this? How I care for him. I do so want to establish a relationship with him and I think that I may have blown the whole thing apart. I'm ready for the next step with him, i.e; kissing and *.*.* What to do?
2007-03-07 08:45:35 · 10 answers · asked by Leona 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do anything. If you told him something as personal and direct as that and he isn't responding positively to you, he is either gay or he has issues. Most guys would be utterly charmed to have girl tell them that. My first advice is to forget this loser. But if you can't forget him, replace him. There are a whole bunch of guys who would love to get with a girl as direct and honest and sexy as you are.
2007-03-07 08:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what exactly did u do u told over the phone that u were masturbating? i dont think there is anything wrong with that ofcourse that depends on how old u are. if u are old enough to have sex then honestly i dont think u blew it just cuz u said that. any grown up guy would love a girl to say those things. i know my boyfriend loves it when i talk to him dirty over the phone or when i moan cuz of what im doing he really goes crazy... so honestly ask him whta happened and why he changed.
2007-03-07 16:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a new relation and you both don't know each other very well, then yes, perhaps to him, you were being too sexually forward? Hard to describe what he is thinking. But don't worry, if he likes you, he will like you. Next time, be careful not to become too comfortable too soon. Sometimes, the other person is not on the same page as us and it might make things awkward.
2007-03-07 16:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is silly for him to get so upset. Like he has never done it?
Maybe just be very conservative until you know him better. I think it would be great to hear that! What is he upset about?
2007-03-07 16:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel about him,explain that you only said what you said for his sake,thinking it would be nice for him.i mean if my g/f told me she was doing this it would be a turn on,nothing really bad about that at all.good luck.
2007-03-07 17:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt like to listen, call me, I would enjoy it :)
2007-03-07 16:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does he act towards u now? if he seems interested. go for it.
2007-03-07 16:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by Angel*Eyesz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that it was a joke.
2007-03-07 16:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just talk to him about it
2007-03-07 16:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have green pubies???
2007-03-07 16:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋