We meet last summer. Spent the entire summer together. We fell in love it was fantastic. He took me out every day. Than 3 months passed by and he become depressed. I ask why he said he spent to much money on us. Now he can't purchase the condo that he was going to buy. Which I didn't know about. Or how much money he have etc.... After that our relationship went dow hill. I wasn't happy because he wasn't happy. Than he told me only money makes him happy. Love is not enough. Than we broke up. Found out I was pregnant. I just had a medical abortion. He said he loves me and he will be here to help me through but we can't be together. I am in love him. One day he tells me he loves me cares about me but we can't be together. Otherdays he intruduce me as my girlfriend and the same night says we ar not a copule. I am confused. He sends me mixed signals. I think he is waiting for me to get better after the abotion. Than he will take off. Should I beleive him or just forget him & move on?
2007-03-07 08:36:22 · 4 answers · asked by Valeria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LEAVE, LEAVE, LEAVE!!! This man is only toying with you and using you as a yo-yo. I mean, are you a human being? If he wants a yo-yo, he can go to Toys-R-Us and buy one! why are you still with this jerk? You believed in him enough to go through this bulls-hit, you should believe in yourself to do better and get the ***** out of this sorry, controlling, unloving, sad relationship. MOVE ON AND NEVER LOOK BACK!!!!!
2007-03-07 08:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was his fault and his only that he spent so much money. Now that he has no money he's sad. Boo Hoo. Don't let him take you down with him.
It's sad you got pregnant and had to let the baby go but it's time you moved on and found someone decent. There are plenty other men just waiting to meet you.
2007-03-07 08:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by golden tigress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really hard one to answer. Ask yourself this question: "Do I trust him to be committed to this relationship?"
If he isn't committed to you, then you will be better off letting him be a part of your past and finding someone who will be there for you when tough things happen. Find someone who wants a relationship and not just a summer fling.
All the best,
DrG
2007-03-07 08:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by drg20202004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to stop accepting these acts
u need to confront him on it
talk about it
motivate him
guide him
if he s not willing too
then i m sorry u need to move on
2007-03-07 09:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋