ok heres the deal
this girl i liked for 3 or 4 years,and before this all happen, we were great friends, i felt like we should be togeter so i been trying to hook up with her for 3 months now, i ask her out 2 time, the first time she said ok, but then i messed up some how and then we just said we never went out, the second time i asked her out,she said she just wanted to be friends, after that we didnt talk to each other much, then about a week and a half, i told her if she wanted to go to the movies with me, she said ok. so went and it was very awkard. then about another week she ask me out, i said ok, but then we broke up a week later, she been saying she has problems with her self rigth now, but i cant see my self without her anymore,please any adivice will help or thougths.
2007-03-07 08:35:31 · 9 answers · asked by jes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok dude, here is my best suggestion. Look for someone else to date. Sounds to me like you like her a lot, but believe me that's the kind of girl I usually get involved with, and it always turns out the same way. She has commitment issues. The roller coaster of yes no, awkward and comfortable is because things are too different between the two of you. I'm not saying you will or have to stop liking her, I still like/love some of my exes, but finding a different person will make you feel better and resolve your issue. Best of luck.
2007-03-08 16:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she has some personal issues to deal with and the timing is bad for the two of you. I know its hard, but you need to focus on yourself right now. Sometimes you can meet someone that could be right for you, and you're ready for it, but the other side isn't. It can be very frustrating. Keep yourself busy, join a club, exercise, read...do whatever you can to take your mind off the situation. As you keep doing this, it does get easier.
And, if you really think about it, if she is confused, you certainly don't want to be with her now. That would make what you could have with her not work out. If it's meant to be it'll happen...if not, then there is something better for you out there. Good luck.
And, remember, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
2007-03-07 08:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Me and my ex broke up too and I know what you are feeling . I would just give her time to get herself together and see what happens . If you really want to know the deal with her plan a date where the 2 of you can just talk and express your feelings .
I know I said that I did not want to see or talk to my ex anymore but the feelings are still there stronger than ever . I will take my own advice and give him time as well .
Take care
C
2007-03-07 08:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not make her see you right now if she does not want to. You have to give her space and time to decide if she likes you enough and no matter how much you like her, you won't be able to make her like you back in the same way. This is just the beginning, there will be others that you may feel you can't live without, but trust me, as I look back I am so thankful that the ones that I thought I could not live without did not become permanent fixtures in my life.
2007-03-07 08:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope~ I even have love. Love -is- the situation. the only time I in many situations tell somebody how i think, is after numerous months and that i'm able to work out that the stupid emotions won't pass away on their very own. So in an attempt to get it off of my chest, I enable them to be attentive to. x3 in the event that they're occupied, in simple terms makes all of it that plenty extra easy.
2016-11-23 13:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is having problems with herself right now just be there for her. Let her know that you are there if she needs someone to talk. Lots of times friends will turn into bf-gf overtime..just make sure that you keep being friends and don't pressure her into feeling like you need to be her boyfriend..
2007-03-07 08:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date anyone with too much baggage. It'll weigh you down. Until she get her self together then you may consider trying again. Don't try to be superman! Allow her to work it out on her own.
2007-03-07 08:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by NicOOd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two probably like each other alot but maybe the girl isnt ready for a boyfriend yet....keep talking to her and reminding her tht u lyk her and tht u would date her anyday
2007-03-07 08:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by ricky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awwww
2007-03-07 08:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by nana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋