We meet last summer. Spent the entire summer together. We fell in love it was fantastic. He took me out every day. Than 3 months passed by and he become depressed. I ask why he said he spent to much money on us. Now he can't purchase the condo that he was going to buy. Which I didn't know about. Or how much money he have etc.... After that our relationship went dow hill. I wasn't happy because he wasn't happy. Than he told me only money makes him happy. Love is not enough. Than we broke up. Found out I was pregnant. I just had a medical abortion. He said he loves me and he will be here to help me through but we can't be together. I am in love him. One day he tells me he loves me cares about me but we can't be together. Otherdays he intruduce me as my girlfriend and the same night says we ar not a copule. I am confused. He sends me mixed signals. I think he is waiting for me to get better after the abotion. Than he will take off. Should I beleive him or just forget him & move on?
2007-03-07 08:35:12 · 6 answers · asked by Valeria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My god, I am so sorry. I read your letter with total shock, then anger. How dare someone treat another human in the disgusting way he has treated you?
He is an emotional mess with no thought on how you might be feeling. You have gone through the worst thing any women could go through with your abortion and that in itself should be the wake up call you need to get away from him. All relationships have their ups and downs and difficult times, but everyone has to draw a line under what exactly is going to far. And he really has gone to far.
You need love, commitment, someone to care for you and be there for you. You deserve all of these things as you sound like a lovely person. He cant do any of these things for you. He is a total waste of space, and in years to come when you are settled with someone and making a life for yourself he will still be on his own, leading the sad, pathetic life he has, and you will have the last laugh.
Tell him to get the hell out of your life, get rid of his mobile number and email address and never contact him again. All that time you wasted on him already you could of been out there meeting the real love of your life.
I wish you lots of luck and love. You are one brave person, and if you can get through the abortion without him, you can get through life without him x.x
2007-03-07 08:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming your pretty, smart, educated,
Then why in the H$ll are you taking the blame for some sh!t he's talking? I bet your friends want to choke you don't they. Ballin and cryin over a looser like that, To blame you for him spending his money on you.
Wouldn't it have impressed you more if during your dating he had bought a condo, h$ll that would have impressed me and I'm a man.
Shows you how good he is with money management. Shows you how good he is with making decisions, I met you thought about marrying this bozo.
You know your better than that, because you know if you had found out he was making some dumb @ss choice between showing off for you and doing a manly thing, you would have chose the manly thing wouldn't you?
Change your number and tell that loser to keep steppin. Christ, you should leave him one of your shoes broke off in his @SS. you almost got serious with this guy.
Tomorrow go to your nearest Hallmark card shop and buy a thank you card for him. And thank him for showing is true BOZO side b/4 you went off and married him. GOD does truly work in mysterious ways
Hope this helps.
2007-03-07 16:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only money makes him happy. i quote that from one of your paragraphs. that's all you need to know. move forward. you already know the answer, you just don't like it.
2007-03-07 16:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by maracana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let him rule ur life; ur happiness should not b based on his...if he can't make up his mind, make it up 4 him, leave...find some1 who wants 2 b with u and there's no doubt...
2007-03-07 16:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Aurora Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to be with you he'ld make it clear, move on to bigger and better things.
2007-03-07 16:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by rachel s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont believe a word of any guys bullcrap, they all lie-i didn't have to even read your story to know the answer
2007-03-07 16:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋