Well I've spent the last 4 days with my g.f. and tonight we made plans but i was invited to drink at my buddies house and i want to do that and if i tell my g.f i'm goin to drink tongiht she'll get mad. Does someone have any suggestions on how i could do both tonight?
2007-03-07 08:25:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
beer and girl.. pheww hard one good luck buddy.
2007-03-07 08:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by Tyler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I think that you should follow through on the plans with you girlfriend. I am a girl and we don't like to be "canceled" on. If you go out with your buddies then she will most likely get mad. But if you turn down your buddies they will probably understand. I don't THINK that guys are really emotional as girls and its not like they're just going to stop being your friend because you wanted to take your girl out. Also, i guess it depends on your friends and your girlfriend. If your girlfriend is very understanding then she might not get mad. (i don't know too many girls like that........but hey maybe she is understanding) And if your guys are the kind of people that everytime they think a girl is coming between their relationship with a friend then they probably will get mad (i don't know to many guys like that...........but hey maybe........)
2007-03-07 08:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by icecoldhoney_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what have you planed to do with your gf and the timing.
You would really be an a$$hole if you let her down. Even If she says its OK, really it wont be OK. So just try to take her with you if its possible (depends on the party at your buddys place. If it doesnt work... just do what you have planed to do in first place.
Your buddy wont dump you if you skip the party ^^
2007-03-07 08:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by remove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
compromise...go 2 ur friends' house FIRST and spend a lil time with them, then spend time with ur girlfriend...if u spend time with her 1st, she might try 2 keep u from goin...she should understand if u wanna hang out with ur friends, especially since u've been with her 4 days in a row, but women don't always look at these things logically...
2007-03-07 08:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by Aurora Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...you dont do both! You simply pick the one which means the MOST to you..and i shud hope that would be ur GF, ur buddies will have more drinking nights, ur GF shud matter more
2007-03-07 08:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by shishuzy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth, that you want a guys night, and that You'll have the rest of your lives to spend together. That will make her really happy.
2007-03-07 08:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dude i have a question for u what do u love more ur gf or beer if i would be u and would spend as much time with mu gf as i can beer can wait love cant
2007-03-07 08:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you'd like to hang out with the fellas, but you'll be back in time to chill out with her.
2007-03-07 08:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by laedeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well move the plans with your gf to an earlier time so that there is time for both
2007-03-07 08:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick the one you love the most.
2007-03-07 08:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋