My Boyfriend and I have been going out for about 2 weeks now.. and i thought evreything was fine.. but then i heard rumors around the school saying that he was cheating on me. he told me that it was just a rumor and that he loves me to much to cheat on me. but my best friends are saying that he said that he would make out with this girl... as long as no one told me! i was soo MAD! i cried all day! i dont know what to do... i want to be with him... but i feel like he keeps really BIG secrets from me.... i really love him... and he makes me feel like no other guy in the world has.
2007-03-07 08:25:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm, I really need to stop spending my workday looking through Yahoo Answers, especially dispensing advice to the single and lovelorn... but here I am. This is probably because I'm a fairly recent newlywed and I want everyone to be as happy as I've become, but sheesh!
Let me look at this objectively. You've been dating some guy for two weeks. He's already your boyfriend? Okay, we'll put that aside. You've heard rumors he was "cheating." Okay, again... are you two exclusive?
You cried all day? You really love him? Over a guy you've been seeing for two weeks? This sounds like a great deal of junior high school drama and you're about 15. Sorry if I sound blunt.
You don't love him. You have a crush. You're both very young and should not read more into a relationship. Sweetpea, here's the deal. You're too young for a real, deep relationship. Wow, I sound like my Dad here. Scary. Seriously, you have a crush, you aren't feeling actual love. You shouldn't be crying all day, you should be enjoying a new relationship that could (I emphasize "could") become something more. If it doesn't it is NOT the end of the world, and you'll meet someone else. I hate to say this, but please don't overreact to a RUMOR.
2007-03-07 08:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMFAO!!! 2 weeks and he love you already? What a crock of s***. First off, its been two weeks. Who gives a crap if he's cheated on you. Its been two weeks and you love him? How clingy are you?
2007-03-07 16:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks and you are THIS upset... Cmon! Seriously. You are so much better than this. Good luck
2007-03-07 16:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋