Do anyone believe that love is like a battle. For example love is the closest thing to god love is pure.Have you ever been single for so long, and no one noticed you, but then all of a sudden when you find someone you love, everyone wants you, and you cant get them off you? Then when you happy in a relationship you have all these people coming at you, even some people you feel like your very compatable with to the point you question your current relationship. Sometimes people doubt who they believed were they soul mate until someone else comes along that they feel that person could be there soul mate also. It makes it almost a battle. This question is very deep and i dont even know how to put all of it out in words but hopefully someone could just pick up easy. Like how do we know that we dont have more than 1 soul mate, because when you fall in love love opens up a door or window to more love, and thats the time in your life where you will receive the most energy and attention.
2007-03-07 08:23:54 · 6 answers · asked by lefteye w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i believe in soul mates but i believe that you can have more than one. people enter our lives seasonally and humans are ever changing as we grow into the people we are destined to become. someone may enter into your life and may fit perfectly into your season...but as your season changes so do your situations and sometimes so do the people. i believe that we give off vibes when we are happy and most of the times we are happy when we are in relationships and people vibe off of that. But who's to say that we can't be happy and single? I'd like to think that I can give off the same energy being single...
2007-03-07 08:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by so_sincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its true, when you find a mate, others tend to start paying more attention to you, but thats because most people are looking for someone who is ready to be with only one other person, and they know you are ready for that. Or, when you have a mate that makes you happy, you change, in a good way. you feel better about yourself, and take more pride in yourself and your appearance, therefore, others may find you more attractive. Now, I don't personally believe that there is more that one soul mate for people. If thats the case, they wouldn't be soul mates at all. If if seems another person could be your soul mate, then the first must not really be. It's a very intricate question with intricate answers, but I hope you get where I'm coming from.
2007-03-07 08:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by Society Dweller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, been there. I was single and no one would notice, but when I found someone serious it seemed like everyone was coming left and right. It seems you've found your soul mate but came across someone you feel like you have the same deep connection with. I tell you, it can get that way. The question to ask yourself; Is this love or lust? I say to pray about it before you do something silly. Once you think the situation over and decipher what it is then make your decision. And like anything, what will be will be.
2007-03-07 08:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People look at others in a relationship as something they can't have and people love to try to get things they can't have, which is why you get more attention when you are already involved. No one has ever found concrete answers about love and soul mates because every situation and every person is different. It is really just a game that you have to play with out knowing the rules, you have to learn as you go and find out for yourself!
2007-03-07 08:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are troubled by the commitment issue. Forget any idea of soul-mate and stay in a relationship and learn to love a single person. True love comes from people deeply committed to each other.
If you think in a more positive way, you'll be just fine.
Good luck and G-d bless !!
2007-03-07 08:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat.
2007-03-07 08:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋