When ever I wake up I feel stressed out because I feel like I need a better life and thats because CESAR MILLAN AND DAVID BLAINE IS NOT IN IT!!!!!!!!!! I hate when I think of things like I will never meet them or I will never get over them!!!! Everytime I see them on tv I go crazy because they are so AMAZING to me!!!!unbelievable!!!!! Each day I try to think of ways I can be more like them!!!!!!!!!!!! please help any advice??? will this thing pass??????!!!?? I get mad when ever I see all of my friends around being happy and joyful because it makes me even more depressed and makes me feel like no one else feels this way!!!!!!
my parents have no idea and they cant know, they will be shocked and dont wven know I have crushes yet!!!!
2007-03-07 08:09:12 · 13 answers · asked by happy 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
its easy for me to say I have a problem but
I cant help it!!!!!
2007-03-07 08:38:08 · update #1
Just try to forget it. You could just go to one of his stunts some time, then you might get over the David Blaine thing. I had an obsession before, too, it involved tacos. I got over it by fulfilling my taco-eating hunger. I also used to be obsessed with large, expensive houses that I couldn't have and everyday I wanted to die because they made my house look like crap. I got over it by just trying to ignore it. You should try that because you obviously can't just eat David Blaine or Cesar Millan and get over it.
2007-03-07 08:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not alone. Please, please tell your parents or grand parents, anyone close. They understand more than you realize.
There are 3 ways to break a habit:
1) REWARD: Do something good for yourself, for breaking this habit of obsession.
2) PUNISHMENT: You turn off the TV, for obsessing.
3) OVER DOING WHAT THE BAD HABIT: Example; Some one who smokes and wants to quit. Smoke so much they puke. Then they are not likely to smoke again.
Your parents are probably on to you. That's okay, even if they are not. Just get this out in the open.You'll feel so much better.
2007-03-07 17:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often when we are obsessed with something it is because we want to be like that person. Spend sometime thinking of the QUALITIES these people express to you and thinking of ways you can develope those qualities in yourself. You will find that as you do this process (and accept that you have many great qualities as well) you will be less obsessed with people you don't really know.
2007-03-07 16:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by yutu34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me these are stunts made to look real you are living in a fantasy world you need to stop this and get up and out and get ajob that you like and live your life in a healthy way and stop being so obsessed with these people they are entertainment world the stunt world illusions grt real kara
2007-03-07 23:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice: just stop watching TV. Your obsessions will fade shortly thereafter.
Having said that, there's nothing wrong with having heroes or role models. Just don't go overboard.
2007-03-07 16:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by Babu Chicorico 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No doubt it will pass. I think your parents need to know because they can help. As much as you think so, they will not be shocked.
2007-03-07 16:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by semdot 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get to the root of your obsession and cut off all ties with the internet and tv with him.
2007-03-07 16:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by aliciakatherine. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get over this obsession when you're in a real relationship.
2007-03-07 16:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by bibi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with the root of your problems.
2007-03-07 16:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by Gordon Freeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not going mad but you sound like you are under effect of popular culture and it effects your self esteem and social perception negatively.
2007-03-07 16:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋