she lives far away and i have to work alot.... i just don't want her to lose interest in me???
2007-03-07 07:41:57 · 21 answers · asked by Bruza 17/uk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, it's enough. By seeing her less, she anticipates seeing you more than if she saw you all the time. So it makes it a little more exciting for her. One thing you can do is go visit her without her knowing and surprise her. Then she will not lose interest if you do stuff like that. If you act too clingy, she will lose interest.
2007-03-07 07:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by rockran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it & see what she says. Communication is important. I used to have a bf that worked 60+ hrs a week and he lived an hour away. We made it work for a while but we broke up for other reasons. Finally TELL her you don't want her to lose interest. Damn I need to start taking my own advice.
2007-03-07 15:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its fine if you both live awy from each other and have to work.. my boyfriend and i have a long distance relationship we see each other bout once every two months and we're as strong as ever, its not necessarily how often you see them that keeps you to gether its why youre together in teh first place. if you only see her twice a week i would encourage you to call her a few extra times a week or email aswell.. she wont lose interest in you i dont think - shes already yours! she must like something about you!
2007-03-07 16:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf lives about 3 miles away and twice a week is just enough for us because it makes it all the more exciting when we do meet up. Its great!
2007-03-07 15:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ye, twice is fine. especially due to the difficulties you seem to have with longdistance and work. she shouldnt get too upset about it. do you talk on the phone regularly, because you also need to make sure you make up for not being there, by showing her you want to be.
i think its really sweet though that you like her enough to even worry about something like that. you seem like a good boyfriend and she'd be a fool to let something like 'not seening you more often' ruin the relationship.
2007-03-07 15:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by chatterbox15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its enough. although personally I would go crazy if i only saw my BF twice a week, but I dont think she will lose intrest in you if you guys are serious enough.
If you cant see her alot talk to her on the phone ALOT just make sure she doesn't feel like you dont care anymore, cause if anything she will feel like you are losing intrest in her if you don't make sure she feels loved.
2007-03-07 15:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by Peeko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's enough if you both agree it is. What matters more is quality time together, seeing each other twice weekly could even keep your relationship fresh and exciting.
2007-03-07 15:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the present arrangement is just fine: you see her twice a week and I see and bonk-her-brainless 5 times a week.
2007-03-07 16:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeh.. i think it's enough only if you love. both of you i mean.. she will understand you andstill ya will have loads of idea to water this relation if ya reallr r in it.
i think it's qutie enough.. i even hav a situation in whcih the whole atlantic ocean's between us: but upshot of tht is still unclear.. cheers
2007-03-07 15:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by dna_hckr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put me down for Mondays and Fridays LOL
2007-03-07 19:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋