i just feel for a girl recently, i haven't been able to meet her: like hang out together, we sometimes talk on the phone, because i always too busy with my studies so Lately my friend told me that somebody had being talking her out. I know i have a chance to win the queen of my heart. So i've only tried to pursue her to hang out once and she couldnot because she was busy. But how do i ask a girl to hang out with me again without i seem to be following her, how can i draw her visoin towards me than the other new guy? I'm so crazy about this chick.
2007-03-07 07:41:32 · 9 answers · asked by Lewiss L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look if thats who you want you need to try harder, it sounds like you not trying hard enough....just let her know and be aggressive....take her out to the movies or out to eat, but as a friend not like a person who s being too pushy. Things in life you want you have to fight for it...talk to her more like u use to ...bring up interesting conversation so she would be interested in you again...
2007-03-07 07:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by lefteye w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't make someone like you. But you can try to win her affections. There's nothing wrong with that. Just... if she says she doesn't want to date you, don't stalk her. Or I'll be forced to give you a link to mr pregnant.
:P
Anyway, just ask her again. Start by saying "hey what are you doing this friday?" Tell her you'd really like the opportunity to meet her.
If she says she's something that has her busy like "I'm working" or "I'm going out with friends on friday night", don't be discouraged.
Change the question up and say something like "When would be a good time for you? I'd really like to take you out to lunch sometime." See what she says then.
If she politely turns you down again with some other reply about her life being really busy right now... odds are she just wants to stay friends and isn't interested in anything more. That's about the most you can do. If she's not interested, she's not interested. You gave her the opportunity to set her own time. Gracefully leave her an open invition. A "raincheck" if you will.
Something like "well, if your schedule frees up, give me a call, I'll be happy to take you out anytime." Also, the reason I suggest lunch and not dinner is because it sounds like this is an internet friend. Its always best to have a cup of coffee or a quick lunch when meeting an internet friend because its safer and more secure. It will make her feel more comfortable.
I hope that helps you out.
2007-03-07 15:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by DanniGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel.. I'm in the same boat basically.. Except the girl of my dreams already has a girlfriend.. But what I do is spend time with her. Make excuses to be around her to study, to help you with something, maybe doing something fun like bowling or movies as a group til she gets comfortable enough and the two of you can hang out.. When you're around her, compliment her, make her feel like she's the only one.. I seem to be wooing her, but I don't know if it's enough.. Good Luck with that though..
2007-03-07 15:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by snuffaluffagus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a sealed container. Find some rope. Buy a refridgeration unit. Then ...
2007-03-07 15:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by Rothwyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a girl i would say to tell her how you feel and then she wouldn't be interested in the other boy as long as she likes you
2007-03-07 15:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by Smurfett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be confident when you approach her like she should be the one chasing u and in front of her someway make her feel jealous, or like if she doesnt go with you shell be missing you, also become more socail
2007-03-07 15:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by jam j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell you but you really can't MAKE her like you...just be yourself and see if it makes a difference
2007-03-07 15:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by pinkbabiesr07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her flowers with a note that reads...... "I won't take no for an answer.......will you please go to the movies with me?"
2007-03-07 15:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by Bride23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stalk her. she'll hate you.
2007-03-07 15:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by youarestupid(; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋