ok. so there's this guy. he never says hi to me, but today he said hi. i said hi back. he said how come ur afraid of me, i said cause ur intimidating. he said really? I said yea. later he waved to me again. a girl told him that i still like him after 2 years. does he want to be my friend? or does he want to mess with my mind?
2007-03-07 07:36:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i liked him alot last year and was kinda obsessed with him. he got scared and ignored me for a long time. now he's just starting to talk to me after 2 years. i'm shy and i don't know how to talk to him w/out him getting scared.
2007-03-07 07:47:02 · update #1
he also has a girlfriend every 3 weeks. he knows that i like him but he never once asked me out? what's wrong with me?
2007-03-07 07:55:31 · update #2
unless you heard that he is violent, you should not be scared of him. I know the little shakes and stuff...but you must not tell him, as he is NOT a monster.
He is fascinated by the fact that you are scared of him, must stay respectful to him and realize he is a person...not a movie star...no matter how hot he is....for you two to be friends, you must feel equal otherwise, it will never ever work.
Good luck
2007-03-15 06:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are saying he is going out with a different girl every 3 weeks maybe he REALLY likes you and dose not want to hurt your feelings by dumping you and moving on to another girl(like you said about every 3 weeks)you sould ask him why or if he wants to be friends because you have probeably been waiting for 2 years for this.also there is nothing wrong with you if anything its him!
2007-03-15 08:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, he's a person. just a person, just like you. nothing to be afraid of. second of all, if he's "afraid of you" because you like him, is that someone you want to be with anyway? and third, if he has a girlfriend every 3 weeks, do you really want to be just another one of them? obviously he likes to play the field, and that's fine. but you sound like you want to be with him, and that's not good for you. look, you need to open your eyes. don't let some guy who doesn't even sound so wonderful run your life or make you who you are. you're better than that. i promise.
2007-03-15 06:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by jennlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him mess with your mind, why are you so Shy towards him do you like him this much? Don't let it ruin your chances of becoming frieds with him. Next time you say Hi first,and ask him what's up? How is he? say something! Maybe he want to get to know you!
2007-03-07 07:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by Dee U 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you flirting with him, he obviously wants to know you or he wouldn't say hello to you. when he asked why you were scared of him, he genuinely wanted to know why? I don't think that he wants to have you scared of him. All you can do is try to spark up a conversation with him and see where that leads you. if he seems like he is playing head games, then you know your answer. head games are no fun for the one that they are played on. if that be the case. find someone else that won't do that to you.
2007-03-07 07:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably Not messing with your mind , maybe a little shy himself, take things very slowly, Be friendly, chat to him when and if you have the chance, let him make the moves, DON'T listen to what other girls tell you. make your own mind up.
2007-03-07 07:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u want to talk to him just say hi and start talking to him
2007-03-15 05:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not the one for you, just go for other guy and I think you are better looking and pretty now, that's why guy, you know what I'm talking about.
2007-03-15 05:57:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two years!!! Someone please say something. Quit playing head games and give the guy a chance. No, he dosen't hate you he wants to DATE you. Why do people have to make things so difficult?
2007-03-07 07:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's trying to be nice tbh.
Try talking to him for a bit.
See what he's like.
2007-03-07 07:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by dontyouwantmebabyx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋