He is 18 and I am 14 I lved him for 3 years now and I finaly told him...now what all he said was that he new..nothing wierd no awkward silence but it's also long distance whiche sucks...Should I ask him out th next time im out their, should i leave it? I dont know anymore...We refer to each other as best friends n stuff and i know i can talk to him about everything and anything...he's told me that e'l be here for me nomatter what...I just dont know what i should do about it...I feel more for him than i did for my boyfriends in the past:) I just dont know how to react...
weve faught before but he doesnt know how to hold a grudge and at the end its always sorry to each other and we go on with everything...But we do see the flaws in each othr too so i dont just think he's completely perfect...
HELP!!!I LOVE HIM!!!HOW CAN I GET HIS ATTENTION OR HIM TO LIKE ME???
2007-03-07 07:35:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are fourteen.
this "romance" is illegal in many states.
try getting over it because he's to old for you and youre too young,
2007-03-07 07:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by heya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 18 years previous, and that i'm approximately 13-14 weeks alongside. My then-fiance (we at the instant are married) and that i've got been making plans on the being pregnant, yet no longer as early because it occurred. As for the way it occurred, nicely all of us knows how a toddler is made... a minimum of i'm hoping so because of the fact we are interior the being pregnant section Lol. i'm certainly protecting the toddler. i could die till now I even have him/her up. My mothers and dads have been actual particularly excited. They did tell me how we could have waited slightly longer till we've been married yet they have been happy each and each of a similar. i think of teenage being pregnant is unquestionably ideal IF, the mothers and dads are in charge sufficient to guard the toddler. EDIT- it wasn't secure intercourse, no. because of the fact we've been making plans the toddler, so it wasn't a huge deal... different than I neglected my start administration that day and then found out it the subsequent morning and we did no longer do something because of the fact we've been actual enormously happy approximately probable making the toddler
2016-11-23 13:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. Hold up. I think you're kinda young for this. Honestly, how can you know what LOVE truely is at fourteen? I know that there are SOME people who can experience that feeling at such a young age..but it all has to do with growing up and becoming more mature & some do that much quicker than others.
And plus - flaws aren't so cool. If you see a flaw in someone that means you cannot except them for who they are. Nobody is perfect..but. if you can accept them for who they are, no matter what they do - then to you - that is perfection.
You should wait for the right guy..seriously. If you can't love everything about him (plus. considering the age difference) - then he's not your guy.
Also, I dont know how long YOUR long distance is. but my fiancee and I are about 23 miles apart. and our love for eachother makes everything work out perfectly. it's not easy going to different schools, but we're in love and we find out a way for everything to work out perfectly.
I really suggest you back off & search for someone else. really. you can still be great friends with him..just leave it as that.
peace & love
t-par & ally
2007-03-07 07:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is an answer from the MOM of an 18 year old boy.
Leave him alone! Stick to the 14 year olds. At 18 boys are ready to start having sex. You are a one way ticket to jail time for him for the next 4 years. I for one think your mom should tighten your world. You are playing adult games with a child head.
2007-03-07 07:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you are to young for this guy, at least wait until your eighteen, I would also have to warn you as for he might be aware of this in which for that's why he doesn't show his emotions to you. You are too young, you have a full life ahead of you their are so many boys out their enjoy your life, don't settle for less. He's eighteen he's at the age which he's more interested in sex than feelings remember girls are way more emotional than guys are so it's better if you listen to the girls advises. And whatever you do don't sleep with him trust me you will end up with a broken heart and you'll regret it. Good luck and take care of urself.
2007-03-07 07:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by dominicandyme22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is too old for u. if u r under 18 which u r and he is 18 or older then there is no way it will work all he will want is sex from u. i say find a guy that is ur age or a little older like 15 or 16 but not 18 srry.
2007-03-07 07:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are tooooo young to be dating an 18 year old. At 14 you should concentrate on other things in life like school and friends....not boys. You should not be stresses at this age. Enjoy life, don't make yourself crazy about a boy.
2007-03-07 07:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by LG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you out of your mind little girl..never mind going for a guy that age.and if he does go for you he should be put in jail ..ever hear of statutory rape..there are laws preventing him from even thinking about touching a girl you age..you don't need to be with a person tha age..find a guy your own age and have good clean fun .and stay away from sex till are old enough to know what your doing and responsible enough to deal with the complications that come with a sex life.
2007-03-07 07:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by rcbrokebones 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get yourself into that mess, im 14 too. It's hormones just relax, and date guys your own age for now. Trust me, you don't want to get into that. Talk about this with a loved one. They will tell you the same, its for your own good. Dont get into that. He will get in trouble too, wait till you're 18 and if you still like him...you're legal then.
2007-03-07 07:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie im not being mean or anything or intending to be mean to you but ur far too young for him ! Come on now sweetie hes 18 and ur 14 ! He probably fucks other girls and messes with ur head cause he knows ur young but yeah i consider finding somebody ur age !Iam being resonable here!
2007-03-07 07:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young for him right now. If you were 21 and he was 25 it would be different but you are a young teen and he's an adult now. He probably sees you more like a sister than a potental gf.
2007-03-07 07:39:24 · answer #11 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋