Well, my best friend likes me. And my other best friend likes him. She's made at me because he likes me. What should I do? I don't want her to be made at me.
2007-03-07 07:34:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's only mad because she can't control anything. You are not responsible for the way he feels about you any more than you could control who she likes...
I guess the important part is if YOU like him or not? (I am assuming you mean he likes you in a romantic way?) If you have no romantic interest in him, then no worries... tell her you are sorry that he does not like her that way but you are not interested in him either like that. Time will work it out, and she will be crushing on someone new after a while.
If you do like him back, well, that is a different story. Then the question becomes HOW much do you like him and if she is the sort of person who forgives and accepts reality or is she the kind that would blame you and hold a grudge forever??
Then you need to decide how important the friendship is to you and make your decision. Good luck! - dd
2007-03-07 07:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by dedum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you know how much it would hurt your friend, don't reciprocate any feelings to the one who likes you. But you should sit down with your friend and talk. She has no right to be mad at you if you don't pursue a realtionship with the guy. You have no control of how other people feel and if someone likes you. She should be more aware of that and get over it. None of this is YOUR fault!
2007-03-07 07:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by starlight_940 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him then go for it.
If she's not mature enough to deal with something she has no control over then it's her problem. Not yours. And, not your other friend's problem either.
Just because she can't have what she wants and is having a fit over it shouldn't ruin anyone's day that's what little kids do. Hopefully she'll grow up.
If one of my friends pulled that crap I'd whup him for being an idiot. But then I don't keep idiots for friends, they'd say well that kinda sucks then move on.
2007-03-07 07:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason for her to be mad at you - you didn't do anything!
It sounds as though you have reciprocal feelings for him - tell your friend that and if she can't handle it she is immature! I'm sure it would be hard for her at first, but ask her if she could at least be happy for you.
There are too many men out there to be fighting over ONE!!
2007-03-07 07:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur friend what u feel and talk 2 ur guy friend about how he feels...if u like him then maybe give it a chance but if u don't tell him and try not 2 lose a friend through all of this
2007-03-07 07:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jarboegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite an amazing feat to be made at. I would side with the person who is made at you because they obviously have some awesome powers.
Also, this situation means that you are probably hot. Have a 3-some.
2007-03-07 07:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well who do you like the best? if it be your best friend, then thats your answer. if it be the other person then that be your answer. which one do you want to lose as a friend? then choose the one least likelly to not lose as a friend.
2007-03-07 07:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
encorage him to talk and spend more time with her,
suggest they do things without you with them.
and whenever he is around you both tell him how great your friend really is, if she hears she will be a lot less angry that you are trying to get him interested in her and not you.
Then it will be his choice not yours.
2007-03-07 07:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by nobodytotalkabout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE QUESTION YOU SHOULD BE ASKING IS DO YOU LIKE HIM BACK? WHO IS MORE INPORTANT? IS IT WORTH LOOSING A BEST FRIEND? AFTER YOU ANSWER THOSE QUESTIONS YOU WILL HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH THE ANSWER.... GOOD LUCK
2007-03-07 07:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥ LINDA ♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should all just stay friends.
2007-03-07 07:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by bluemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋