My dad passed away from cancer when I was 19.I sold the house we lived in.I lived with my mom until she decided she no longer wanted me living there.I bought a house for less.I didn't want an apartment cuz I would pay money in and never get any back.
I had a couple of jobs and was let go from both.Had my son. Had MUCHO problems finding jobs.I am 22.Have little experience etc.
I have been staying home and watching my son.I know that if I get a job I won't make very much and daycare alone will take half of my check as I don't qualify for welfare.My family is not able to watch my son and is drama loaded.I have been paying for everything out of this inheritance.Property taxes,utilities,medical care for myself,food, clothing,etc.The money is getting low $15,000.My aunt also gets a cut as she is the trustee.
The house and my car are in need of repairs. House needs new aroof and the basement wall and the floor are cracking which is dangerous.The car may need a new transmission.None of
2007-03-07 07:33:15 · 4 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Education & Reference ➔ Financial Aid
which is cheap and I still need to be able to pay taxes and all.I'm arranging for childcare for my son with my cousin for a little less maybe so I can work. But what about school.I don't even know if I will be able to go or not. I would like to.I'm not sure how all of this is going to pan out.
2007-03-07 07:35:57 · update #1
I don't deny that I may have made mistakes.There are things within my control and things that are not within my control. Things in my control- purchasing the house - It was nice when I bought it 2 yrs later it needs some work. Having a child- I didn't know I was pregnant was NOT going to have an abortion.
Things outside my control - My father dying , my mom kicking me out for no reason, getting let go for illness related to pregnancy.
2007-03-07 08:29:54 · update #2
Did you know that babies learn best in the context of a one on one relationship with mommy? Drs. Brazelton and Greenspan detail this in their book - the irreducible needs of children.
For children to enter care in their first three years of life is so damaging to their intellect - because they are not with mommy, not in her arms (infant brain cells only form connections when infants are being held!) and because they are so stressed by the separation - cortisol, the stress hormone that floods the brain of an infant crying for mommy, causes depression and anxiety, impairs learning, and causes stress disorders in adulthood for the infant who suffered so.
NICHD studies have found that kids who enter day care before 5 have school problems that persist for 12 years after stopping day care.
Humans are primates. Have you ever observed primates at the zoo or elsewhere? They never put their infants down. That's how ours evolved, that's what they need. Mommy's milk, mommy's arms, mommy's time and devotion.
No early learning center can deliver the goods for an infant/toddler - it's a lie parents tell themselves to assauge the guilt at the egregious behavior of abandoning their children to be raised by hired help - because infants and toddlers need mommy to learn best.
2007-03-10 19:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You own a house, use it as collateral for loans, or roll the cost of education into your mortgage. As for your son, see if the school has daycare for while you're there.
Also consider that money problems are seldom just caused by not having enough money.
2007-03-07 07:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the journey that your mothers and dads stay in New Hampshire and you reside with them, then you are instate individual till the college demands you reside in New Hampshire a undeniable volume of time. i does no longer burden my mothers and dads with a private loan for my training you made the determination to pass ot New Hampshire without sorting out relating to the training. I advise you get a job and pass to artwork and make the money on your training --- and then pass to college once you get the money or bypass sufficient time to fulfill instate training standards do no longer burden your mothers and dads with a private loan for this. you made the determination to pass lower back and forth.
2016-11-23 13:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my older sister just had her first child and my brother in law is going to school for free because he has a child. the government will pay for your skool becuse you have a kid, they are rewarding you for being irresponsible and having a child when you oculdn't completely provide for it and yourself
2007-03-07 07:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋