He is 18 and I am 14 I lved him for 3 years now and I finaly told him...now what all he said was that he new..nothing wierd no awkward silence but it's also long distance whiche sucks...Should I ask him out th next time im out their, should i leave it? I dont know anymore...We refer to each other as best friends n stuff and i know i can talk to him about everything and anything...he's told me that e'l be here for me nomatter what...I just dont know what i should do about it...I feel more for him than i did for my boyfriends in the past:) I just dont know how to react...
2007-03-07 07:06:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
weve faught before but he doesnt know how to hold a grudge and at the end its always sorry to each other and we go on with everything...But we do see the flaws in each othr too so i dont just think he's completely perfect...
2007-03-07 07:13:48 · update #1
decide...do u want him as a realli gud friend or as somethin more and jus remem dat if ur bf and gf and u guyz have a fight den it might never b how it was before
2007-03-07 07:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if everything has just been going on like nothing's happened, then it's possible he misunderstood you. Next time you go see him, make sure that he realizes exactly what you mean. A good way to affirm this, when you hug each other, hold it a little longer than usual and say it, then kiss his cheek. It's easy, not as earth shattering, and will definitely get the point across.
If all goes well and maybe even find out if he reciprocates those feelings, then ask him out! But, if he just wants to be friends, accept that. It's better to be close to the one you love in a friendship, than to ruin a beautiful relationship by trying to pursue something unrequited.
2007-03-07 16:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by Shel K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋