achieve an orgasm??I am 21 and have really good sex with my boyfreind-like we r constantly doing new stuff and very open to trying/experimenting,but it's getting to the point where i am having a really hard time acheiving my orgasm-very frustrating what to do?
2007-03-07 07:02:37 · 12 answers · asked by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please be serious when answering-i really want a solution on how to achieve a better orgasm/or have one at all.thanx
2007-03-07 07:04:01 · update #1
I am the same way. Im 25 and its hard for me to have an orgasm during penetration. I can only do it orally. Its a pain!
The getting high before doing is true! That helps out alot. It relaxes your mucles so its easier to c u m. Also, play with you cli*t when you are doing it. Also being on top is a major role in it cause then you can control where he hits you at.
2007-03-07 07:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women just naturally have a hard time. I have encountered women that can get off if I just breathe on it lightly or after 2 or 3 strokes or licks. Then some require hours of foreplay and sex before aceiving orgasm. But the ones that have a hard time have a psycological block that makes it hard to orgasm. You need to discover what it is that blocks you in your mind.
2007-03-07 15:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually the spot is inside near the roof of the "loving". If you are sexually active, doggie style (from behind) is a very good way to acheive orgasm. Foreplay to warm up before, or even minor masterbation beforehand can help a great deal. My gf and i did that becuase it started takeing longer and harder to get her to orgasm after sex for aobut 2 yrs. So we "warmed" up before. Hope that helps
2007-03-07 15:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by PETER Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're trying too hard. Try relaxing and just enjoying the moment. Put the orgasm out of your head and it will "come" easier.
2007-03-07 15:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of going at it like bunnies in heat, try slowing down. The female body takes longer to get aroused and even when aroused can take awhile to attain orgasm. Its just a matter of finding what you like.
2007-03-07 15:06:29 · answer #5 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to foreplay. its pretty much impossible to orgasm while having sex. i think i only have once out of a million times. and it took forever!! pretty much foreplaying is the only way i can orgasm. maybe you two can do 69 or just please each other while laying there. you have to experiment, ever girl gets off differently.
good luck =]
2007-03-07 15:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
clitoral stimulation is key. So the reality is you will achieve orgasm much easieir from oral stimulation. I suggest him start with oral then after you are all hot and bothered move on to penetration
2007-03-07 15:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the gyno and ask him ull only get rude answers mainly o n here
i dount any1 will know
i read sumthing that younger woman have trouble with that area
2007-03-07 15:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and don't think about it... enjoy the moment. u may be putting too much pressure on yourself.
2007-03-07 15:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move your hip in circle and have him do the same but in an opposite direction while he's inside you
2007-03-07 15:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by Cristy77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋