Why is always sure this is just for fun and then turn around and get possesive on you but when you get that way with them they get upset because all of a sudden its a real relationship and its something he doesnt want?
2007-03-07 07:00:32 · 9 answers · asked by memyslf&I 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are not indecisive, they know exactly what they want at all times. The problem is women don't want them to have that, so men need to try to work around that. That is why women think men are indecisive.
Basic life fact.
2007-03-07 07:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men aren't indecisive, people are indecisive. Women enact very similar behaviors, just in different ways. But in answer to your question, the guys are probably possessive on a sexual level, but not on an emotional or relationship level. They just don't want the person they're dating to sleep with someone else because it is a knock to their egoes. If you're confused, you should talk to your partner about the inconsistency. Tell him you've noticed that he expresses his jealousy freely, but you think it's unfair that he doesn't allow you to do the same. If he continues to behave selfishly, dump him. Relationships are difficult enough without the problem of an immature partner. Reclaim your freedom and find someone who is ready for a relationship.
2007-03-07 07:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When guys are younger especially, their hormones are designed for them to be more independent and like to be out competing with the rest of the world. Women most of the time aren't as power hungry as men are. Women want so much to settle down all the time while the man is looking to get out at be all that he can be.
2007-03-07 07:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by The Master 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I speak for myself when I say that defining and entering relationships is extremely difficult.
It's like I'm being ripped apart. On the one hand, there is this really pretty girl I like and my body wants her BAD.
On the other hand, what kind of man am I to want to be physical with someone without knowing how that will ultimately fit with what she wants.
I swear this sort of thing makes me mental. I'm trying to do better but it's definitely WORK.
2007-03-07 07:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by onefineham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men only want sex, not a relationship. This is totally wrong.
2007-03-07 07:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Coxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most men are immature.. and don't even know what they want until they are like really old.. lol
2007-03-07 07:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by Dreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really cuz dude r immature.. they dont really know what the hell they want.. they think they always have a say so but u dont... some think they controll they relationship but they dont
2007-03-07 07:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by mesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz u guys pressure us too much
2007-03-07 07:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
beacuse men are stupid. THEY dont know what they want, so how should we?
2007-03-07 07:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by jimi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋